I wonder if it's the same for all women, or does each woman differ? My sex drive is higher than my mates. Sometimes she's in the mood, often times she's not. So I'm wondering: What gets you ladies in the mood?

Background: Im 27, she's 26. We've been together for almost 2 years now, we see each other on the weekends, soon to move in together (April).

Ideas?

smoothy

Sorry if this seems rude, but at 27 you haven't figured this out yet?

The short answer is play to her needs and wants. Whats those are is for you to find out. You will get as many answers as there are women.

talaniman

Pay attention, and she will give you a road map. The are all different in their wants and needs.

alyssarox32

Hi Eura,

Here is a fact that you should know: Men's sex drive is higher then women's.

I am a 20 year old female and my sex drive is off the peak! I don't know if it has to do w/age or me as a person. I believe every woman is different when it comes to their sexual desires. Maybe she thinks that because you have been together for quit some time, 'making love' isn't all that important when it comes to keeping a stable relationship, even though it sure helps! Did you try talking to her about the situation?

There are lots of factors that can turn a woman on. For me, just being attracted to the person inside and out is a big turn on. Just knowing what you'r partner likes will more than likely turn her on. I get in the mood easier when I haven't seen my boyfriend for awhile. If you want to get into more detail then message me personally.

I hope this has helped you!

Fr_Chuck

Real Sincere feelings, once you can fake that you have it made

alyssarox32

Hey Fr_Chuck,

What do you mean by that?

alyssarox32

Oh yea, one great gift that women have is that they can tell when a man is faking it or not. When you are trying to give advice, give some that will actually work.

Choux

One thing that gets women in the mood for sex is exercise(but not to total exhaustion).

Nothing better than getting all the muscles going...sweat pouring....breathing heavily... being all in touch with one's body.....excellent!

smoothy

You could just hand over your credit card....that will get a lot of them in the mood. Nothing like a shopping spree.

EuRa

How can you respond with "you haven't figured this out yet", then go on to basically say it's different for all women!? That's a catch-22!

So there isn't just one answer, eh? I know men's sex drives are larger. I'm 27, I'd prefer to do it 3-5 times a day, which I know won't happen. She's willing once a day, maybe twice if I'm a good boy. But I often feel like I'm forcing her to do it, rather than her being a willing participant, and I don't want to feel that way. It's not that she won't have sex, it's just that it seems I'm wayyyyy more into it than her. I don't get her crank going to well, if you know what I mean.

Nobody really gave an answer, other than excercise, and that it's in her wants and needs. What does that mean exactly? I was hoping people to say "use candles" or "buy such-and-such", etc... you know... something simple. :P Nobody said that.