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Old Feb 7, 2008, 03:29 PM
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do you find large vaginal lips sexy or not. I have a large labia, and my lips are a brownish tint? Is this gross?
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Old Feb 13, 2008, 03:41 AM   #11  
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Their are plastic surgeons who specialize in altering female genitalia. I am not a fan of porn but have watched some in my time and after discovering this about plastic surgeons, i realized why some pron stars have no labia majora at all. It has all to do with erotica.
I've seen much porn as well....While most of the women look great I tend to like the ones with the natural breasts and or/ the larger vaginal labia.

I don't like boob jobs unless the woman has the "orange in a gym sock" thing going on. And prefer the nether regions unaltered by a cosmetic surgeon, except maybe if you consider laser hair removal cosmetic surgery.
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Old Feb 13, 2008, 11:26 AM   #12  
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tickle, so small external genitalia are considered more attractive, then, if the porn women want to have them.....come to think of it, I don't remember any prominent vaginal lips when I watched some porn.
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Old Feb 13, 2008, 12:03 PM   #13  
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Perhaps surgical minimization of the labia is somehow connected to the common misconception that a woman's entire crotch is a vagina. The vagina is just a hole, a tube for blood, babies and penises. Vaginas are interesting, but only when attached to the rest of the body. Maybe that's the only real trouble with porn, it disconnects.


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Old Feb 13, 2008, 12:45 PM   #14  
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Wow...no idea what kind of porn ya'll are watching, but I've seen porn with EVERY kind of body type, shape, color and size there is.

Large labia, small labia---ask a guy when you're standing in front of him naked if he sees anything in front of him but a naked woman who (probably!) is going to have sex with him.

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tickle agrees: LOL have to agree with you there. Anything I ever worried about at that particular time was not an issue when he swept me off my feet and into bed !!!
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Old Feb 13, 2008, 12:45 PM   #15  
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do you find large vaginal lips sexy or not. I have a large labia, and my lips are a brownish tint? Is this gross?

I am not a guy but...

Hon, you are not alone. A very large majority of women have large, darker tinted lips. That is actually very common. Most of the women you see in porn and magazines either have had some nice photoshop work done or they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color. Don't worry about it so much.
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Old Feb 15, 2008, 04:30 AM   #16  
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...they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color.

??? Is this true? Bleached?

OK, maybe it helps with the STDs as well.
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...they get their lips bleached to make them a nice pink color.

??? Is this true? Bleached?

OK, maybe it helps with the STDs as well.
I think thats were Micheal Jackson got his ideas.... However I find it hard to believe he would watch regular porn.
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Old Feb 15, 2008, 05:17 AM   #18  
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Hi, Choux, yes I think the absence or minimal labia majora are sought after by porn stars because it makes the clitoris more prominent. As I understand it, there is also plastic surgery to make the clitoris larger as well, but I think that would minimize sensation, and they really cant advertise that for obvious reasons such as genital mutilation. It is all about money anyway, most porn stars are quite wealthy if they can moan really well.
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Old Feb 15, 2008, 05:50 AM   #19  
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I believe society, such as the porn industry wants people to think that a 'tucked in' vagina is the sexiest. Why? Who knows? Who got to decide if that was attractive or not?

Have you ever heard some of the nasty words used to refer to larger labia? It is disrespectful, degrading and humiliating to women.

There are all different shapes and sizes of womens genitalia.
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I can't explain it either but I be its the same people that think huge obviously fake boobs look great too.
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