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I was just wanting to get this out there to see if anybody might be able to help me gather some information just for my own knowledge.
I have always been curious to find out how many other heterosexual males thought about experiences with other men. I am not homosexual but these thoughts have occurred. I havn't ever acted on them and probably never will, I just wanted to make sure I am not the only one out there.
uh you may have homosexual tendencies that you don't act on. I cant see how you would fantasize about something like that unles you are a little attracted to guys. Just my opinion..
Like you I have also had the same thoughts, and not acted on them, I think its like having sex for the first time, the thought and excitment of trying something new, I think people call it Bi-Curious. The thoughts I have are selfish ones, what I mean is getting the pleasure from the experience, and not neccessarly returning it, like recieving oral but not giving, and being the one penetrating, but not being penetrated. If you ever do go for it, and its any good, let me know.
All I can say is what I learned from one of my brothers about fantasies of having sex with men.
He felt a great loss at not having a close/emotional relationship with his father(my father, too), and he had fantasies about being with a man; he was married.
have i thought "what would it feel like to have sex with another man?"... sure... just like ive thought about "what would it feel like to drown" or "what would it feel like to win the lottery" or "what would it feel like to be a bug"...
since i am aware of what a male-male sexual relationship might involve, i have thought about it within that context of definition.
do i think about it regularly? yearly? no.
i have friends who are gay or lesbian. i dont have any big issues. but the thought of a guy kissing me icks me out beyond belief, let alone anything further.
just not my thing. even in the mental world.
some people get off on all kinds of things. i have dark fantasies that i would never do.
but as for male-male... not so much in my case, as i am absolutely raptured by the female form, but you are surely not alone.
I think it is normal curiosity. Girls have the same thoughts as well. And the one who says they never ever tought about it once, are lying to themselves I think. My opinion. and it has nothing to do with being gay or lesbian, it's just curiosity that you wouldnt normally fulfill in reality. Just like fantasies on having group sex and the like.
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