| Tell him how you feel. Tell him that in your marriage there is room for love, trust, sharing, having goals, being with friends and family and so on. Your environment should feel safe to both of you. The responsibilities of the relationship and are very important and both must be aware of this fact. You choose not to be in a relationship with any man who makes no attempt to dedicate himself to the relationship, fails in his responsibilities, sacrifices trust and lacks any desire to make you feel that you are his lovely wife. You have a responsibility to tell him how you feel and what you expect from him and if he is not able to deal with his responsibilities as a husband then you have a responsibility to yourself and you will have to remain strong and secure in your heart and this you must do with or without him. Life is yours not his. Best wishes. |