I lost my orgasm and I want it back! Can you help me find it?

Mitexi · #1 Dec 11, 2006, 11:03 AM

You see I have not had sex for well let's see...going on three years now.

In my last relationship I had the best orgasms in my life. When the relationship ended I had to masturbate. I would orgasm when I masturbated. But now when I masturbate I cant get an orgasm to save my life. Is it because it's been so long? Is it that masturbating is just not doing it for me anymore? Do I need the real thing? Or maybe I just need different toys?Help me I lost my orgasm and I want it back! Can you help me?

Bhavi_baboon · Dec 11, 2006, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Mitexi

You see I have not had sex for well let's see...going on three years now.

In my last relationship I had the best orgasms in my life. When the relationship ended I had to masturbate. I would orgasm when I masturbated. But now when I masturbate I cant get an orgasm to save my life. Is it because it's been so long? Is it that masturbating is just not doing it for me anymore? Do I need the real thing? Or maybe I just need different toys?Help me I lost my orgasm and I want it back! Can you help me?

well thats tough dont go doin anythin crazy like bein a playgirl just find a guy you like and ask him if he in to it i know its crazy but after you do that he will think oh baby n maybe do somink new!!!

Mitexi · Dec 11, 2006, 11:18 AM

I should have mentioned I have no plans in running around with any men. So I need some suggetions on fresh ideas to get me going again. No plans on being a playgirl, no joy in that, it's too easy. And I'm not easy!

Tuscany · Dec 11, 2006, 11:20 AM

Have you tried a BOB?
A Battery Operated Boyfriend?

Mitexi · Dec 11, 2006, 11:28 AM

Of course. It's one I have had for many years. It's always been ol'faitful till now. Do I need new toys, diffrent type of toys....??

Tuscany · Dec 11, 2006, 11:30 AM

Maybe you need to try something new..."spice it up" a bit

Bhavi_baboon · Dec 11, 2006, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Mitexi

I should have mentioned I have no plans in running around with any men. So I need some suggetions on fresh ideas to get me going again. No plans on being a playgirl, no joy in that, it's too easy. And I'm not easy!

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