You see I have not had sex for well let's see...going on three years now.

In my last relationship I had the best orgasms in my life. When the relationship ended I had to masturbate. I would orgasm when I masturbated. But now when I masturbate I cant get an orgasm to save my life. Is it because it's been so long? Is it that masturbating is just not doing it for me anymore? Do I need the real thing? Or maybe I just need different toys?Help me I lost my orgasm and I want it back! Can you help me?