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When my husband and I do have sex ( which isn't offen ) he wants me to have multiple Orgasm, but after the first one, which is really strong, it's hard to have a second one. I have told him that I need to rest at least ten minutes but he doesn't want me to wait, he just want me to have one after another like if he's haveing a contest with his self to see how many times he can get me to have one. Any idea?
When my husband and I do have sex ( which isn't offen ) he wants me to have multiple Orgasm, but after the first one, which is really strong, it's hard to have a second one. I have told him that I need to rest at least ten minutes but he doesn't want me to wait, he just want me to have one after another like if he's haveing a contest with his self to see how many times he can get me to have one. Any idea?
It may be he just wants to please you !! But you need to tell him you will not have any orgasm if he has his pad and pen out keeping track of how many... As that would take some of the magic away from the mo'.
Some women feel complete after one orgasm and are not interested in seconds or thirds. For some women, the first orgasm is the strongest and the rest are milder, for others, it's just the opposite. You don't require another one, and if you try to force yourself, it won't be very pleasurable. Tell your husband to stop pressuring you into having another orgasm right away. Let him know that you will need to take a break before the next one. All that is really important is that you enjoy yourselves.
Hi,
You have received some good answers before mine.
If your husband continues to bring up this with you, you might consider talking with him about going to a Professional Marriage Counselor, together.
I don't mean you marriage is in trouble, please don't get me wrong.
But, a marriage counselor can help work out things like this. It does sound as if your husband wants too much out of your sexual relationship, or doesn't understand what he is asking. A counselor might be able to help him understand, and help work it out with you both. I do wish you the best of luck.
He is playing a foolish game with you. You can only have one. One that is really good. Some women do not even orgasim. Orgasim is not the most important experiance that there is. There is the making love. Being satisified. If you are satisfied then he needs to know that is it. If he is not that there is other things that can be done to satisfy him if you want to.
You know what it is ya'll. They have everyone thinking that all women are supposed to have one after the other and so he thinks shes supposed to do that too. He probably thinks that hes not doing something right because of it and thats why hes pressuring her. so he needs to be reducated on the fact that the people saying this are wrong. He should be happy that she has one intense one.
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