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I have talked about this on here before. my husband gets off way to fast. like 1 minute. but that isnt what is bothing me. well part of it. we had sex tonight and like always he got off in 1 minute or less. I began to cry. he said he was sorry. I know he meant it , but saying Im sorry and not doing anything about it. isnt going over very well with me. I told him my needs arent being meet. this has been going on for 11 years. I have cheated on him and I hated myself for it and I promised myself I would never do that again. what my ? is. Shouldnt he be more concerned about this. I feel I am the only one that is concerned over this. I cant get him to go to the doctor. or try anything. in the past we have tried creams and I have ordered some pills to see if they help. we have used condoms and he will last maybe 3 or 4 minutes longer but that is it. I talked to my doctor about it and he just says in time it will go away. seeing a sex therapist is out of the ? he wont do it. shouldnt he be willing to do what ever it takes, if he really loved me. I know I would for him.
This thread is full of what he needs to do...... Bull. He's not gonna do ANYTHING, is he? If he was, he'd a done it by now......
Nope.... YOU are the one who has to act. Talking to him - pleading with him ISN'T acting. It's more of the same.
WHAT should you do???? I dunno. I hear you say you don't want a divorce. I also hear you say that you want to get laid. I'll bet getting laid is gonna win - AND IT SHOULD. Getting laid is what it's all about...
My suggestion that you act is to prompt him to act. It may not. K. Then you got a dud on your hands and I'd start looking for the one who is gonna wow you in the sack.
I know most of all this has been in what he should do. The only way I get PLEASED is if I use my toys and I have had it with doing this. I want a man to please me.
I dont want to cheat, but I may have to. I have the chance all the time, but I dont do it. I do love my husband, but enough is enough here.I will talk to him to night when he comes home. he knows I hae cheated before. I have even told him " If you dont please me , I will find one that will" I know this hurt him, but hell I am beng hurt to.believe me I dont want to cheat again. but if he wont do anything about this ......than what
i'm not telling you to go out and cheat, but people don't realize just how important sex is. It is damn importnat to me too. Like Para said I wonder if it is a mental thing. Has he had sex with anyone else, and how did that turn out. ? I wou;d want to know that before I leave him.
maybe your really hot. try looking ugly, dont comb your hair, dont shower and smell really bad, dont wax your facial hair or legs, and eat lots of onion and garlic. I AM SURE IT WILL TAKE HIM A LONG TIME TO GET OFF AFTER ALL THAT! you will have the best sex of your life! he will never lose his load in one minute after that...he might last all night.
He knows a lot of men are attracted to me. men come on to me all the time. I talked to a male friend about this and he told me,"maybe I am to much of a woman for him and that he may feel he isnt good enough for me. I am 40 years old and everyone tell me I look 27 I just take very good care of my body and the way I look means a lot to me. but to me if he wants to keep me. he should please me in bed and out. He really is a good man. but very very bad in bed.
I want a man to please me. I dont want to cheat, but I may have to.
No, you don't have to. If you do, it will be because you decide to. If it really is a deal-breaker, tell him so, and tell him that if he won't go to a counsellor, doctor or sex therapist you're filing for divorce. If he won't go, get the divorce, and then go out and fu*k your brains out. If you're going to leave him over this, at least do it with some class. If you just go out and get laid, it will probably end the marriage anyway, but with a lot more heartache all around.
yeah its bad for teens to post on adult sexuality. arent these teens going to listen? i mean we dont ever provide them with shows that show teenagers having sex or we dont sell it to them all the time. so where would they get this idea or be so bold? anyway j_9 its very bad for teens to post on adult sexuality.
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