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Hello!Im 19 and have recently broken my virginity with my current boyfriend of the same age.The strangest thing is that when we had intercourse for the second time,he complained that i had gotten too big for him.I definately did not cheat on him,so how could this have happened.Im really woried,is this normal???
hi mshebo-
it is normal for the muscles in that female area to expand gradually with use...I do not think that by the second interaction, there would be that marked of a difference.
besides what your boyfriend complains to you about, you should gauge your own self, the difference in sensation from before and and now. Go with what you know to be true.
Implying/asserting/accusations of infidelity based on an er-opening does not seem to make sense to me/right to me. think about whether it makees sense/seems right to you.
Wow, how insensitive can a man be? Honey, did you try suggesting he was infact too small for you? Your body is very unlikely to have suddenly expanded. It is possible that the angle you have tried this time may not cause as much friction as last time, or with all the excitment you may have become more er...lubricated the 2nd time. There are exercises you can do, if this will help your confidence. When you are sitting in front of the tv, squeeze the muscles you would use if you really needed a wee. Hold it for a second or 2 and then release. Do this as many times as you can. However, I suspect that the only problem that you have is an immature boyfriend hun x
This is his problem not yours, he is the one that doesn't know whats happening, and for him to jump to the conclusion that you have cheated, is a testament to his lack of knowledge and insecurity. If he will not listen to the truth and continues to accuse you of being unfaithful, then kick him to the curb, and save yourself the drama and disrespect he will bring you.
Hello!Im 19 and have recently broken my virginity with my current boyfriend of the same age.The strangest thing is that when we had intercourse for the second time,he complained that i had gotten too big for him.I definately did not cheat on him,so how could this have happened.Im really woried,is this normal???
Im shocked for his insensitivity!
I would also make it clear to him that this really upset you because its like he is indirectly telling you he thinks you could have cheated!
I dont necessarily think that there is anything to worry about. But now since you have become sexually active its probably wise to visit your gynea. Its standard procedure really nothing to get scared about
I have to say this and i know im gonna get moaned for doing so too but here goes, Has it occurred to you that maybe its not you getting bigger its him getting smaller he sounds like an arrogant to be honest and he needs a wake up call you need a man that will respect you not diss you.
Girl Please Your Boyfriend Ain't For Saying That. This Is Most Definatly His Problem And I'm Sure That You Have Not Changed That Much Since You Lost Your Virginity. He Might Only Like Having Sex With Virgins. Please Dont Let His Commit Bother You Or Hurt Your Self Esteem. Also I Think It Is So Awsome That You Waited Until You Were 19 To Loose Your Virginty. Men Would Love To Have Women Like You.
for his insensitivity! 
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