I am currently 25 and have only had one sexually active partner, who I am with now and have been for around 10 months, we started having sex about 2 months ago. At first it was good, the usual getting into it, he knew more than me as he had several previous sex partners.

Recently he has started to ask to if he could see more in stockings, i do actually have some, so I said maybe one day. he asks every now and again, but when I say to him, do you want me in them tonight, he usually says no but sometime it would be good.

Now he has started using the word lingerie, I asked him what he would like, as im unsure myself, and he said anything, as it really turns him on. So still im left a little unsure. My impression was that lingerie is bra and knickers/thong, in which I always have on anyway.

I know at 25, I may seem a little naive here, but this is why I am trying to get help and knowledge...

What is meant by lingerie?
Is this classed as dirty sex?

He knows I am not really a fan of dirty/kinky things, as I am extremely innocent, but when he texts me saying, "I want to see you in lingerie soon" and I reply with, "ok" he will reply something like, "you obviously aren't in the mood, so ill leave you for a while"

I feel as though I can't really always give him what he wants, but then I think if it makes me uncomfortable, why should I? I can't tell if those texts are like pushing for dirty texts, or what?

I just need a little bit of help here where possible, thank you.

Choux

Your guy wants to be surprised!

Get yourself a black garter belt and black stockings and put them with very high heeled black pumps. A nice black bra is good with cut out nipples. You could get this outfit together today. Crotchless panties are good. Keep your outfit on while seducing him like the femme fatale you want to be.

Time to lose the "good girl" mindset.....that is one of the killers of fantastic orgasmic sex. Passion is a positive life force...nurture it and bring out your sexuality that has been repressed over the years.

smoothy

There is nothing inherantly dirty about sexy lingerie....there is something for every woman and every womans body type. And picking the right stuff will make you look spectacular.

What is the difference between lingerie and regular undies? The regular undies are plain stuff you might buy children or expect your grandmother to wear....its cheap, utilitarian , usually coton and nothing intriguing about them at all, Lingerie can be anything from slightly titilating to va va va voom stuff you'd never wear under anything.


And as far as most of us will aree.....nothing two adults do together in a commited relationship would really be considered dirty if they both enjoy it.