The five years of my relationship with my husband, I never thought that he would not be able to get it up. It was an embarrassing feeling I experience last night. It was up while we kissing by the time we were going to have sex in went down. There are time I was giving him oral sex and he falls asleep in the mist of it. I was in tears because I was so embarrass. He work to two jobs seven days a week but that was never an issue before. I am a very romantic person and always bringing excitement to the bedroom. Now I am looking for excitement somewhere else. I don't want to cheat I never cheated on him but I need sex good sex. What is the problem? Is he not turn on by me anymore?