My husband has a tinkerbell fetish. And it's starting to creep me the hell out.

So I have known my husband for 9 years. We were on and off dating, and was the best guy around. Finally this last year we got married. The man adores me and says I drive him wild. Recently though, I noticed his attraction to the Tinker Bell character . We started a Disney pin collection and I noticed what he purchased more of was Tinker Bell. At first I thought...ok if he keeps it up it will seem kind of gay, as girls are the ones that dig the Tinker Bell, and so do little girls.

Then I started seeing figurines pop up around the house and I was getting a bit annoyed with it. To make the story short, I went through his phone last night and I found videos of him masturbating on a tinker bell doll he apparently has. I was disgusted and shocked.

I was up late and honestly started wondering if I could even last as a newly wed. Our sex life is fine but he is constantly horny and becomes aroused. Y me to often, yet most of the time I don't provoke anything that would turn him on.

We had our civil marriage back in September of 2011, now our big wedding is coming up May 2012, and I'm honestly thinking of just putting it all on hold. I don't desire to celebrate anything, yet most of the wedding is paid for ahead of time.

I even doubt I would want to ever have kids with him. I can't trust him with that fetish. I'm kind of freaking out and wonder if I can even spend the rest of my life wih him. I love him so much as he has done a lot for me and cares for me, even while I'm unemployed. But this, to me, has gone too far.

Am I overreacting?

Is he the only man who does this? Or are most men secretly fetish driven? Some advice would help.

We are both 27 and I'm kind of shocked and scared that he is doing this.