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    honeybean Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:03 PM
    Is my husband gay?
    My husband prefers me to masturbate him (Jack him off), instead of vaginal penetration; is he gay?
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:05 PM
    My partner like that too. I think it a bit of laziness on his side to be honest! Some men just prefer the feel of a woman's hand, as some prefer the mouth etc. I wouldn't immediately assume he is gay. Why not try asking him?
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:07 PM
    Why would that make him gay?

    Maybe you have an especially good technique for masturbating him. Maybe he had a bad experience with vaginal intercourse. Talk with him about this. Don't get mad or accusing.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:07 PM
    Honestly I would need a little more information about him to make a perception. Does he have any other quirks that make you wonder if he is gay. Some guys just like jerking off and prefer it to actual sex. I had a boyfriend once that enjoyed me watching him jerk off almost as much as having sex. He said it excited him having someone watch him.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:22 PM
    I have asked him several times. He goes crazy, yelling and screaming, I'M NOT GAY.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:27 PM
    Then he probably isn't some men just prefer this.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:27 PM
    Prior to us getting married 3 years ago, his roommate was his gay cousin, he lived with this man for 12 years.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:32 PM
    He married you, didn't he? Being gay doesn't rub off onto someone else like peanut butter. Either you are gay or you are not. My lesbian sil and her partner adopted a baby boy who is now a very straight teenager.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:34 PM
    You are right, thanks for the support!
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:37 PM
    Men are very visual creatures. You must give him some very exciting pictures to carry around in his head!
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybean
    My husband prefers me to masturbate him (Jack him off), instead of vaginal penetration; is he gay?
    Um, how does preferring masturbation equal "gay"?
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    Jun 15, 2007, 02:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybean
    I have asked him several times. He goes crazy, yelling and screaming, I'M NOT GAY.
    Well if he has this reaction... I would wonder what the hell is wrong with him.. also does he like ana? If he did I would really wonder hmmm
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    Jun 15, 2007, 03:11 PM
    He never asks for anal, however if I initiate anal he does it. He never initiates anal or oral he just wants to be jerked off.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 03:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bushg
    well if he has this reaction...I would wonder what the hell is wrong with him..also does he like ana? If he did I would really wonder hmmm

    Well how you would feel if your spouse frequently asked you if you were gay? You might go crazy eventually too.
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    Jun 15, 2007, 03:31 PM
    She did not say she asked him all of the time... if my husband badgered me over it I would get ps'd but if it was a 1 time ? Then no big deal :)
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    Jun 15, 2007, 04:05 PM
    Her exact quote was "I have asked him several times."
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    Jun 15, 2007, 04:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybean
    My husband prefers me to masturbate him (Jack him off), instead of vaginal penetration; is he gay?
    Lady be this is all I see, it is what I was going by edit I just went back and looked.. ur right I'm working and posting at the same time maybe I should stick to working...
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    Jun 18, 2007, 06:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybean
    He never asks for anal, however if I initiate anal he does it. He never initiates anal or oral he just wants to be jerked off.
    Seems odd. But then maybe he has some other issues. But no I don't think he's gay. Maybe a therapist can find out what's at play here.
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    Jun 20, 2007, 06:45 AM
    He may or may not be gay but just because he prefers to help himself than to be helped doesn't mean he is gay!
    He may get more pleasure from masturbation than from Vaginal intercourse with you - for many reasons - it may also be laziness on his part :)
    If you would like to - you could go to see a sex therapist to find new and exciting ways of having sex therefore making him receive more pleasure and make him want to penetrate you more often
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    Jun 20, 2007, 07:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by honeybean
    My husband prefers me to masturbate him (Jack him off), instead of vaginal penetration; is he gay?
    :confused: most likely he is or he has something and doesn't want you to catch what he has
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