My husband prefers me to masturbate him (Jack him off), instead of vaginal penetration; is he gay?

smoothy

I know hand jobs are my least favorite activity. And it doesn't matter if its me or her doing it. But maybe its his thing.

margarita_momma

Just a thought honeybean: Would your husband have any time to be having an affair? Don't freak out for me asking that because it is just a question to better understand things. Sometimes when men are having affairs and find love with another woman, they tend to distance themselves sexually with their wives because they don't think of it as cheating on their girlfriend. My mom just went through this with her ex-boyfriend and it just popped in my head that a lot of the signs are the same.

Kattalover

Did you ask him why he likes handjobs so much or did you ask him if he's gay (or both in the same breath)? If the latter, I could understand why he's getting upset.

nya

Hi,

I feel you should go with your gut instincts. You know him and you live with him. If your woman's intuition tells you that this guy is gay, then I feel you're probably right.

honeybean

He can make time in in his schedule to have an affair. However since the the first time I masturbated him, he seems to want that more than penetration, he will penetrate me if I motion him to do so, and he gives great oral sex. I've never met a man who prefers a hand job, vs penetration,

honeybean

I did ask him why he prefers hand jobs, he said that while he was single, over 10 years before he met me, he did not have sex, he just jacked himself off. He seems addicted to jacking off.