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how young is too young when it comes to your virginity?
This girl whos interested in me recently told me that she lost hers at 14.The legal age here is 16.Im not sure whether to be put off by this coz it seems a bit young. she said shes never had sex after that but thats not the point.woulnt care if shes a virgin or not but not sure if I should be put off by this fact.shes 19 by the way now.
Could she be lying?? trying to impress you so you dont think she is not experienced???
On the other hand you cant judge someone just for the age they lost there vaginity it is said to be kept for that special someone just remember some are more nieve than others and believe that what ever the age that one person is worth giving it to, even if in years to come they realise that it really wasnt. but you cant turn back the clock right.
If you are judging her based on her past that is not fair. Who cares what age she lost her virginity? Is she a good person, one that you want to get to know? I say let the past be the past and move on, get to know her. You might miss out on getting to know a really special person if you let something like the age she lost her virginity stand in your way.
Moreover, I tend to agree with CBW. I think she might of lied to impress you, but then realized that you were not impressed, and now is trying to back track.
Either way, don't let this stand in the way of you getting to know the person that she is now.
Well if she was 14 now and you were asking if that was to young, yes of course it is, But the older and older you get, the more and more you will meet girls who have had all sorts of bad past relastionships.
The first and most important rule is: don't judge from past, don't ask about past, that is just that past.
I know lots of girls who lost there viginity at 14 (not that I'm saying it's a good idea.) I think it depends on where someone grew up and the culture. I don't think you should be worried about her/ put off. It's all in the past after all and you don't know the circumstances. Unlike other posters I don't believe she is lying.
firstly im not judging her at all,I was merly asking opinions because it dosent really bother me.I know for a fact that she isnt lying because she once dated my m8 who she gave it too.its only within the last 8 months that we got in touch again and started talking and she has since fallen for me.
If she was 14 and the age of consent is 16 she was raped because the law says she is to young to consent. The fact that she says she hasn't done anything since then backs up the fact that is was a bad experience for her. Why would you judge someone who had something done to them before they mature enough to consent to it?
yea thanks im NOT judging her just a lot of people that i know have very strong opinions towards the fact that she did it when she was 14.Ive since spoken too her and I told her it doesnt bother me and I now know that she regrets it was was going to tell me she was a virgin if I hadnt already known bout her past experience.She also told me that she wants to give her selfproclaimed new virginity away too me if I choose to be more then friends with her,which at this point Ive realised that Ive had a crush on her for months now and not realising it till 3 days ago.
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