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How to trick my husband for pregnancy?

Asked May 4, 2012, 09:12 PM — 18 Answers
i hve been longing for a baby now. we have been together for 9 yrs (2 yrs married). he is always good in controlling when he ejaculates. he is very good in doing withdrawal method or putting the condom on at the right time.

is there ways tat i can trick him so he does not pull out or use condom?

my husband withdrew the sperm on my stomach. then he used his hands to wipe and placed it into my vagina. can this get me the chance to get pregnant?
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May 4, 2012, 09:20 PM
withdrawal method does not work well at all. There is sperm in the early fluids.
condoms have up to a 10 percent failure rates, no need to trick more about having sex at the right time

Next, you talk to him and if you want a baby bad enough leave him and find a new husband that wants children
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May 4, 2012, 10:05 PM
Yep I agree with Chuck 100%, Thanks.

John
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May 4, 2012, 10:21 PM
agree agree agree chuck.


or just poke lots of holes in all the condoms... JUST KIDDING!
Its much better to communicate with your spouse over the children/no children sort of thing. and anyway, it would not be fun to have a baby with a man who was tricked into having one to begin with. he would not be a happy camper! and there for you would not be a happy mommy.
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May 5, 2012, 12:03 AM
Relationships are built on communication and trust. If you trick your husband into pregnancy, you have lost all of his trust and you may never regain it.

Is there a reason you two haven't talked about having children? If you did, why does he not want a baby?

Having a child is a serious life changing event, should you "trick" him you may just end up being a single mother.
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May 5, 2012, 06:41 AM
You shouldn't TRICK him, period!

What kind of person resorts to tricking their partner into having kids? That's sneaky, dishonest, and a horrible thing to do!
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May 5, 2012, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by shana2012 View Post
i hve been longing for a baby now. we have been together for 9 yrs (2 yrs married). he is always good in controlling when he ejaculates. he is very good in doing withdrawal method or putting the condom on at the right time.

is there ways tat i can trick him so he does not pull out or use condom?
I feel sorry for him, really....if you are trying to trick him into making you pregnant...you aren't a very nice wife. That's deceitful and not at all nice...

Expect him to not be nice to you at all when he discovers that you are trying to do that. In fact...if it was me...I'd leave you.

Such decisions are not yours alone to make...and he should be presented with the choice and not be "TRICKED" into it..

That means BOTH of you decide...he isn't just the sperm donor..and the poor sucker that pays the bills.

Its EXACTLY things like this that that can drive some men to violence and worse...
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May 5, 2012, 07:14 PM
May I add that tricking him into making you pregnant will only result in him resenting you and possibly the child.
He obviously doesn't want children, and to have one as the result of deceit on your part is wrong on so many levels.
This is a decision that should be made as a couple.
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May 6, 2012, 03:32 AM
shana, may I ask how old you both are?

Have you sat down and talked to your husband about wanting children? Did you have an agreement about having children before you married? Have you thought about anything beyond getting pregnant? Are you at a point in your marriage where you are financially, emotionally, physically and mentally ready to have and raise a child?

If your husband doesn't think this is a good time to have children, then stop trying to get pregnant until you both agree it is time. In the meantime, make certain you are healthy. The healthier you are mentally, emotionally, and physically the healthier any child you have will be. Make certain that your marriage is stable and you both are ready to be parents. 'Tricking' your husband is not a healthy way to about getting what you want and would not be bringing a child into a stable and loving environment.

It is not a stable environment if the father feels tricked even if the pregnancy was an accident. Men who would have given their wives the moon and the stars have abandoned their families over things like this. Is that a risk you want to take?

You have the ability to take time and prepare for having a child. Make plans with your husband instead of working against each other.
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May 6, 2012, 05:02 AM
On a purely practical level, since the odds are good that he would leave you, what do you want more, him or a baby?
If a baby, then find another husband.
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