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How to tell if a guy likes you or not?

Asked May 31, 2012, 08:54 PM — 38 Answers
How do you tell if a guy likes you for you or just to use you for sex?
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Jun 5, 2012, 07:33 AM
You keep asking the same question, more or less. You get helpful answers and suggestions (and some which I admit you do not find helpful) and time passes and you post the same problem again. You don't seem to be "learning" from your past problems/mistakes.

If you are starting sexual relationships too early in the relationship, then that's the problem you need to work on.
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Jun 5, 2012, 07:40 AM
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How do you tell if a guy likes you for you or just to use you for sex?
How? You don't give him sex at all, not even any related kinds of intimacy. Don't even kiss him. Totally hands off until you have gotten to know him after at least six months. Group dates and activities are best so you aren't alone together.
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Jun 5, 2012, 07:59 AM
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I know I am ready to have a relationship, but I can't push something thats not going to happen.
There's your starting point. Don't push. Don't even think about pushing.

If you find yourself falling for men more easily than you did, then back up and work on a different relationship. The one you have with yourself.

Falling for one male after another and even thinking about pushing a relationship are symptoms of looking for something in others that you are missing in yourself. What do you do that you enjoy? Things that make you feel good to be you and it doesn't matter who else is around? How are your relationships with your friends? Do you enjoy hanging out and having fun with no expectations of anything other than a few laughs or heart-to-hearts as the conversations shape up?

What support do you give yourself? How confident are you in who you are and what you want in life?
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Jun 5, 2012, 08:04 AM
See my problem is I just don't know how to say no even with friends, like if my friends want to go somewhere and If I don't I just say yes anyways.
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Jun 5, 2012, 08:28 AM
What would happen if you said no to anyone?
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Jun 5, 2012, 08:35 AM
Nothing would happen, but I just give in easily and I guess I'm too nice and don't want people to be mad at me. I'm too concerned about what people think about me.
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Jun 5, 2012, 08:40 AM
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I'm too concerned about what people think about me.
And if you say no, how will they feel about you?
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Jun 5, 2012, 08:52 AM
I'm not sure how they would feel, it depends on the person what they are thinking.
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Jun 5, 2012, 09:00 AM
If you say no, how do YOU think they would feel about you?
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Jun 5, 2012, 09:25 AM
I don't know maybe angry but they would get over it.
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