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khans786 · Jul 3, 2008, 09:12 AM

Me and my husband have good sex life but its mostly him doing the job. For sum reason I feel very being on the top. Tomorrow he's going to be back from three day business trip and he has been missing me a lot so I wonted to do something special for him related to sex could any one help me thanks

charlotte234s · Jul 3, 2008, 09:25 AM

Well it's hard to just throw out good ideas 'cause we don't know what he likes. I suggest you run a bubble bath and lie in wait for him, then invite him in?

Either way, if you're trying to do something nice for him, I'm sure it'll be appreciated ;)

khans786 · Jul 3, 2008, 09:27 AM

Thanks charlotte il try that it sounds good

smoothy · Jul 3, 2008, 11:12 AM

About the not being comfortible or whatever on top. Keep in mind guys are very visual... and with you on top he not only gets to see a lot more, his hands are free to roam... and well, use your imagination there.

I don't understand why some women get self concience in that position because its fantastic for the guy, and once the woman realizes it it can be fantastic for her because she has a lot more control so once you get past the initial mental block it can be the greatest thing since sliced bread for most women.

Choux · Jul 3, 2008, 11:47 AM

Since you have such a good husband-good provider and considerate of you, why don't you consider adding fellatio to your sexual repetoire? Google fellatio and learn some basics. :)

Alty · Jul 3, 2008, 01:25 PM

Greet him at the door wearing nothing but a ribbon and a smile. If that doesn't get things going, I don't know what will. :)

Just enjoy, if you do, it's likely he will. And don't be afraid to try something new.

Have fun. :)

curlybenswife · Jul 3, 2008, 01:44 PM

Talk to him find out what his desires are and work your way through them works both ways though but if you don't ask you don't get.
I like charlottes idea of a bath but a shower can be just as fun soaping each other up lots of hands exploring then let your tongue do the walking.
The main thing is have fun and enjoy it and don't be afraid to experiment ;)

kp2171 · Jul 4, 2008, 12:52 AM

When my partner enters the bathroom and joins me in the shower, its just bliss.

Or when I get out of the shower and she is waiting for me with a "come hither" look, again... its wonderful.

My suggestion... whether its intercourse or oral or hand stim... is to completely take him by surprise.

If my partner stops me in the hallway, pushes me to the wall and demands I take off my pants NOW, its wonderful. If she stops me, pulls up her skirt and demands satisfaction, its great.

So... step out of the normal routine.

If he is normally the one "in charge" take control.

Another great surprise is to wake him up in the middle of the night when he is sleeping. Use your mouth to wake him and your body to drive him over the top.

Other ideas... ask him to watch you shower, then ask him to spread lotion over your body, then demand what you want from him.

Just because you are interested in his pleasure doesn't mean you cannot use the opportunity to get yours as well.

happy_jester · Jul 4, 2008, 04:26 AM

Originally Posted by kp2171

Just because you are interested in his pleasure doesnt mean you cannot use the opportunity to get yours as well.

EXACTLY!! Make it a 2 way activity,and it's all the more enjoyable. :)

tickle · Jul 4, 2008, 05:28 AM

I have heard that wrapping oneself in nothing but saran wrap and meeting him at the door will work wonders.

Synnen · Jul 4, 2008, 08:43 AM

Originally Posted by tickle

I have heard that wrapping oneself in nothing but saran wrap and meeting him at the door will work wonders.

You've "heard" that, hmm? ;)

kp2171 · Jul 4, 2008, 11:36 AM

The tough part is getting it back on the roll neatly.

jennyhrt · Apr 17, 2009, 12:36 AM

Originally Posted by smoothy

About the not being comfortible or whatever on top. Keep in mind guys are very visual...and with you on top he not only gets to see a lot more, his hands are free to roam.....and well, use your imagination there.

I don't understand why some women get self concience in that position because its fantastic for the guy, and once the woman realizes it it can be fantastic for her because she has a lot more control so once you get past the inital mental block it can be the greatest thing since sliced bread for most women.

Women are so worried about their bodies. Mostly if they had babies. But we always feel fat. That is why although a great position, women mentally have a problem with it.