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Asked Aug 9, 2012, 06:35 AM — 34 Answers
Hello my name is Tina-I have been with my boyfriend for almost a yr-we have no sex-if we do its once a month and he doesnt even -we dont finish..:( I feel so insecure and he works an comes home and plays his stupid game on the computor-even on weekends all day into the night-just sits there-he does work and come home-latly he has been saying he's broke-dont know how..we dont go anywhere or do anything...I feel like he doesnt want me-I give 100 + % to this relationship and i just want him to want me to want to have sex with me-when i bring it up he gets very angry and thinks its stupid....Ive worn nice nightys tried to get his attention and still nothing- nothing but a kiss goodnight and an I love you-we had sex in the beginning then he said he want to wait till we fell in love-well its been a yr in September plus i dont get why he doesnt or want me...:( what should i do?
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Aug 9, 2012, 06:42 AM
how old are you both....this matters.
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:09 AM
im 30 hes 37
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:10 AM
I just dont understand...
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:16 AM
When did he have his last complete physical? Is he on any medications?
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:20 AM
I have no idea-he hasnt had one since we've been together-he smokes weed-alot..and when he does have a hard on he covers it with his hand....makes me feel like he doesnt want me-but he says he loves me and wants a future-
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:22 AM
And right now we live with his mom-he makes promises and dont keep them.
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:42 AM
Dump him....his a pot smioker and a slacker. THere are lots of far better guys out there that have none of his failings.

He also likely has other medical issues that can compound the fact pot kills the libido.....like diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol...etc.
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Aug 9, 2012, 07:47 AM
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And right now we live with his mom-he makes promises and dont keep them.
You two living with his mom is a real deal braker in the intimacy department. Is this arrangement for financial reasons, or is ths his idea?
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Aug 9, 2012, 08:36 AM
Its so hard because I love him-and yes we are staying here to save money for a place but just yesterday he said he was broke! I dont lknow how I handed him$1300.00s for us to go somewhere and now he's broke! its only been 2 days
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