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How far is too far in sex?

Asked Sep 13, 2011, 06:02 PM — 20 Answers
Well, I met my old girlfriends today after about a year (this last year I lived and studied in another country but I visited my homeland a few days back), and we started talking about our lives. They asked me if I met anyone there and I told them about my boyfriend, whom I'm seeing for the last 8 months.
As the conversation moved forward, we ended up talking about our sex lives. Well, long story short, when I started telling them a few things about my sex life, nothing with too many details, they looked at me in shock!
Well, the truth is that my boyfriend is really creative and has a lot of imagination when it comes to sex, something that for me is great as I'm one of those people who get bored very easily.
Personally, I don't consider my sex life, shockingly extreme but my friends told me that I need to take it easy and that they would never go that far.
So, in your opinion, how far is too far when it comes to sex?
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Sep 15, 2011, 03:33 PM
Strange phonomenon, often the people who watch the most cookery programmes are eating a microwave meal while doing so.

All good answers guys.

If you are both happy and it's not illegal then it's not too far in my opinion.
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Sep 15, 2011, 03:59 PM
Strange phonomenon, often the people who watch the most cookery programmes are eating a microwave meal while doing so.

@ QLP

What do you mean by that?
Excuse my ignorance but I'm not a native speaker. :-)
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Sep 15, 2011, 04:16 PM
We need some context here:

My boyfriend's family hates me because of my age. What should I do?

Assuming your friends know the age of your boyfriend, I'm inclined to believe that if he was your age, they would react differently. Or, the reactions were somewhat normal, and you're just being overly sensitive, which indicates insecurity.

Are you doubting your relationship? Sounds like it's worrying you.
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Sep 15, 2011, 04:38 PM
@ slapshot_oi

They haven't met my boyfriend. And they don't know his exact age. The link you posted is a very serious problem I'm dealing with at the time and has nothing to do with this post.

Regarding this post, it's not like it's a serious issue that makes me lose my sleep. I wasn't hurt or anything because of my friends' reaction. It just surprised me and I was curious to read some other people's opinions on the matter.
The two issues shouldn't get confused. They have nothing to do with each other.
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Sep 15, 2011, 05:24 PM
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Strange phonomenon, often the people who watch the most cookery programmes are eating a microwave meal while doing so.

@ QLP

What do you mean by that?
Excuse my ignorance but I'm not a native speaker. :-)
I meant that your friends may do a lot of talking about sex, but that people who talk about it all the time, or are interested in what others are up to, may not have a very interesting sex life themselves. Just as people who watch a lot of cookery shows might not do much actual cooking.
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Sep 15, 2011, 05:31 PM
@ QLP

Lol, thanks for explaining. I may live in England for the last one and a half years, but some of the metaphors and idioms are still tough for me to figure out.

Thanks for taking the time answering.
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Sep 15, 2011, 05:49 PM
I must compliment you on your English. We have plenty of natives here in England who are less fluent.
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Sep 15, 2011, 05:53 PM
@ QLP

Lol! Thank you so much! You're very kind! :-)
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Sep 15, 2011, 06:55 PM
There is nothing "too far" if both are coherent and agree.
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Sep 16, 2011, 11:50 AM
You may be shocked if they told you what they really do?
They may be doing what you are doing, and not admit it?
Sounds like you are having fun.
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