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How do men feel about having sex with pregnant wives?

Asked Oct 5, 2009, 02:44 PM — 18 Answers
Just curious how men feel about sleeping with a pregnant woman? Does it gross you out?
If its your wife does it turn you on? Do you feel tempted to cheat?
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Oct 5, 2009, 03:06 PM
Some guys like it and some don't. I know mine got funny after 4 months when I started to show...it peaked after birth and he couldn't wait after.

WHAT I LEARNED: Take care of YOU and the PREGNANCY...don't worry about your man, just accept and respond to affection in different ways if it isn't physical. Every guy will respond to pregnancy differently. Men will be men, their visual so let him be visual and think happy thoughts.

Oh and always use condoms while pregnant...it will protect you and keep you from getting yeast or urinary tract infections caused by sex...you want to try to stay infection free for the pregnancy so you don't have to take any medications other then the materna vitamins.

Take care and congrats!
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Oct 5, 2009, 03:18 PM
Hi, kisstalmeth520!

When I was married and my wife was pregnant, it didn't "turn me off". We just needed to be careful in what we did.

Later in the pregnancy though, we refrained from sexual activity concerning genital contact.

Thanks!
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Oct 5, 2009, 03:38 PM
Some guys actually are turned on by pregnant women. I know when my wife was pregnant, it didn't slow me down one bit, but I have to say that I was a little concerned about hurting her. I know some women are sensitive about having the extra weight, so they feel that their husband isn't turned on by them. But that's not always the case.

As far as cheating, no I wouldn't even THINK about ruining my marriage with infidelty. I love my wife way too much. That's why I got married later than most. I didn't want to be hugging my wife, looking over her shoulder at another woman.
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Oct 5, 2009, 04:06 PM
Our second was even more fun than our first, even if we did break the chocolate fondue pot.
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Oct 5, 2009, 04:11 PM
For some reason, some of us guys think we're better endowed than we actually are and actually think our penises are going to hurt the baby.
That's why sex kind of slows or even stops in some cases, but... It's all done out of love.
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Oct 5, 2009, 04:47 PM
If you're concerned about his responses to your pregnancy, talk with him. It may not be you and the baby, but the stresses of getting ready for the child and concerns for the future.

Some men do have problems disassociating their lover from the mother-to-be and it can cause a drop in the libido. Others get freaked out by the baby moving at "strange" times. Children have their own sense of timing even before birth.

Some men find their mates at their most attractive when they are pregnant.

I will admit to being lucky in having a husband who didn't mind his children having 'strange' timing.
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Oct 5, 2009, 06:11 PM
On the cheating, no a person does not cheat on their spouse no matter what, why should being pregnant make a person what to cheat. If they want to, then they don't have the commitment
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Oct 5, 2009, 06:34 PM
Wait a second:
You have a boyfriend

You may be pregnant
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnan...nt-398489.html

You have self esteem issues
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-...es-341703.html

You pray and your boyfriend is the pastor's son and you say your religious, yet your name is basically crystal meth?
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...nd-344994.html

Something just does not add up here.


Sarah
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Oct 5, 2009, 06:40 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
Wait a second:
You have a boyfriend

You may be pregnant
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregnan...nt-398489.html

You have self esteem issues
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-...es-341703.html

You pray and your boyfriend is the pastor's son and you say your religious, yet your name is basically crystal meth?
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...nd-344994.html

Something just does not add up here.


Sarah
Sherlock Holmes I presume?

Amazing deduction there...
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