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    How do I know if I have a loose vagina?

    Asked Jan 22, 2009, 05:54 AM 20 Answers
    *By the way, I am 18 now so please don't delete my post because of my username *

    I lost my virginity a few months ago, and it didn't hurt at all! I certainly felt something - it was very pleasurable - but I didn't experience the agony I'd been warned of (or any kind of discomfort really) nor any blood whatsoever. This is what first made me suspicious that I wasn't particularly tight.

    Since then my boyfriend and I have been having sex several times a week, and every time I thoroughly enjoy it and almost always manage to reach orgasm without any clitoral stimulation at all but I get so paranoid about the fact that nothing seems to hurt me and what it might mean! I have asked him lots of times if he thinks I might be loose, (although he was a virgin before me anyway so he has nothing to compare me to) and he says that everything feels great for him, I don't feel what he would expect loose to feel like and he wouldn't want me to be any tighter. But maybe he's just saying this to make me feel better? I also asked him if he could feel when I have an orgasm and he said no, and I thought that it was normal for the man to feel the contractions (again causing me to worry about being loose)?

    I'd just like to know if it's likely that I am indeed loose despite being only 18, or if I'm worrying unnecessarily and I was just lucky to have a pain-free first time. So is there any way that I can know?

    Thanks for reading.
    Last edited by anongirl17; Jan 22, 2009 at 06:29 AM.
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    Synnen Posts: 7,864, Reputation: 2413
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    Jan 22, 2009, 05:56 AM



    /sigh

    Women and loose are as bad as men and their size.

    If your boyfriend is happy, WHO CARES?
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    Jan 22, 2009, 06:00 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    If your boyfriend is happy, WHO CARES??
    I care that he could be happier
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    Jan 22, 2009, 06:34 AM

    Anongirl, You seem to have perfect sex life. Congrtulaton!
    Your first sex without discomfort is because you have lots of vaginal fluid which is good. Otherwise you would have to use artificiallubricator.
    If you have more question, post here. I will share any experience I have honestly. I am responding your question only because you said you're 18. Again, congratulation and good luck in your future sex life!
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    Jan 22, 2009, 07:18 AM



    Really--if you're that concerned, do kegel exercises.

    However--it just sounds to me like you were actually READY for sex, with a partner you trust, which is why there was no discomfort.

    Your hymen may have broken years earlier--especially if you were an active girl. Sports, biking, horseback riding, all of these can break your hymen without even involving sex.

    Are you going to worry after you have a baby, too? If you are both happy with the sex you're having, then stop stressing about something so silly.

    Let's put it this way: if it were HIM that came here and asked if his size was okay, because he wanted to be pleasing you MORE, when you were perfectly happy with his size as is, wouldn't you think the question was silly?

    I'm not putting down your question. It's just that as long as you're both enjoying it, there just is NOT a problem.
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    Jan 22, 2009, 07:28 AM

    Thank you so much for the reassurance, I'll try not to worry so much :-)
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    Jan 22, 2009, 08:10 AM

    It doesn't matter long as both of you are satisfied... quite worrying about it... I'm sure you have better more important things in life to worry about than this... your happy, he is happy... there is no problem..
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    Jan 22, 2009, 09:21 AM

    Girl, your vagina is not like a an old innertube! Don't ruminate about this or anything else generated by negative thinking about yourself.

    A happy life is mostly about having a positive attitude and always showing up. Now, go get your orgasms.

    Best wishes,
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    Jan 22, 2009, 09:34 AM


    Quote Originally Posted by anongirl17 View Post
    How do I know if I have a lose vagina?
    Hello girl:

    If he bounces around, you're a little loose. If not, you're fine.

    excon
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    Jan 22, 2009, 11:53 AM
    Unless you are an old out of shape woman who has had 10 kids and let herself go ( in which case you might have a cervical prolapse if you are in that bad of a shape)... odds are you are't loose. Don't sweat it. Some women are tighter than others but what matters most is the woman that vagina is attached to. Any man that complains he needs a strap a 2X4 to his butt so he doesn't fall in should be shown the door immediately, and make sure to tell him "don't let the door smack you on the butt as you are leaving".
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