how can you tell if a guy you just met wants sex

colleena · #1 Dec 10, 2006, 04:05 AM

I met this guy about a year ago and have just recently went out on a first date with him a couple of weeks ago. We were both involved with someone (him with someone for a couple of months and me with someone for 8 years) I have gone out with him twice and the first time he called me for and the second time i text him and he said to come over. He made a few comments saying he was wondering what I was thinking about and then when I was leaving we kissed he said I was dangerous and also asked me at some point while we were kissing if I was thinking that my boyfriend was better in bed??? How would I know this new guy and I never had sex. When I was leaving I said give me a call and he said you have my number you can call me and I said why do I have to call and he said he didnt want to interupt my life. What does that mean. So I said your seeing someone too and I dont know if she will be around. Anyways I have since broken up with my boyfriend and I have told him but he still doesnt call me (I broke up about 5 days ago) I texted him "your a heartbreaker" and he texted back what why would you say that you had a man. What does he mean by that.

cman · Dec 10, 2006, 06:26 AM

I'm a little confused here... so did you go see this new guy while you were with your man of 8 years? The guy was probably just trying to play it cool with the calling thing, and he might have been afraid that you did not want to see him anymore. He could have just been using it as a shield so that he wouldn't call you and look like a fool if you didn't want to call him. Of course he wants sex, every guy and girl does; it's just a matter as to wether that is all that he wants. Give it some time, and don't have sex with him just because he wants to... make sure that it's something that you really want.

Lo02 · Mar 20, 2008, 10:50 PM

if he just wants sex he is nice and sweet and kinda of mysterious at first but once he gets it he is slow and short with you you can tell now by what he does. does he text you back or does it take him a while to do so and does he make you feel bad?

Synnen · Mar 21, 2008, 04:09 AM

Oh goodness!

PLEASE look at dates.

The original poster has not been back since DECEMBER 2006!!

Closing thread so that MORE people don't jump in.



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