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hi im 16 years old and i have lost my virginity to my boyfriend which we have been having sex for 9 months now, and yet to have an orgasm. i mean i love him very much and i am very comfortable in front of him we tried everything like different positions, and even different settings what should i do?
Just by having sex may or may not bring you to orgasm. It's not like the movies, men are not all hung like horses and women don't all climax after a minute of rough penetration.
Most women rely on clitoral stimulation to acheive orgasm and this does not usually occur with penile /vaginal penetration-sorry.
You obviously need to be touched more either by your own self or with your bf. A nice discussion with him might also help.
Just by having sex may or may not bring you to orgasm. It's not like the movies, men are not all hung like horses and women don't all climax after a minute of rough penetration.
Most women rely on clitoral stimulation to acheive orgasm and this does not usually occur with penile /vaginal penetration-sorry.
You obviously need to be touched more either by your own self or with your bf. A nice discussion with him might also help.
hi im 16 years old and i have lost my virginity to my boyfriend which we have been having sex for 9 months now, and yet to have an orgasm. i mean i love him very much and i am very comfortable in front of him we tried everything like different positions, and even different settings what should i do?
I didn't have a real orgasm with a man until I met my husband... (28yrsold) You are too young and inexperienced to know your body - same with me before I met him. It could take you years to figure out how to have one with him or yourself.
When you turn 18 visit an adult store and purchase one of their toys.
You really shouldn't have sex until after college anyway. It will just complicate your life.
If your not experiencing orgasms than why bother having sex - right? You can do other things with your bf to make him happy...
OMG people! You're giving all this sex advice like this person is 25 years old!!! She's 16!!! This could damn near be rape in any number of States! I'm not a prude or anything even close, but listen to what you're saying here. Has anyone mentioned birth control or protection from any number of STD's and so on?
I'm sorry, but I started freaking out as I read each reply. Tell me if I'm wrong!
OMG people! You're giving all this sex advice like this person is 25 years old!!! She's 16!!! This could damn near be rape in any number of States! I'm not a prude or anything even close, but listen to what you're saying here. Has anyone mentioned birth control or protection from any number of STD's and so on?
I'm sorry, but I started freaking out as I read each reply. Tell me if I'm wrong!
Obviously she already had sex - I was telling her its not worth it anyway...
Wait until after college.
She obviously cannot talk to anyone about it and that is why she is on here. Rather her ask questions - we answer - or she ask questions - we don't answer - she figures it out for herself????
People under 18 shouldn't be able to post on this board then. Isn't this Askmehelpdesk.com? It is here for a reason. People need advice - they obviously cannot go elsewhere to get it... Sorry... I am new to the board- I will have to re-read the rules.
Please point out ANYWHERE in my post that encourages her to have sex? also, I mentioned touching herself-or is that too over the top for you?
I will answer any question as sensibly as I can REGARDLESS of the age of the questioner-however I will bear it in mind to tailor my answers to the depth of understanding of the individual. I'm sorry if this offends you.
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