OK my boyfriend is 20 and I'm 19... I want to know what I can do to turn him on. ;)there are times that he's not in the mood and I can't get him in the mood. Also after sex I want to go again and he just cant. I try grabbing him and he gets hard and we start to have sex and he gets soft even while we are doing it. I don't know if it's that I'm not getting him excited enough or being sexy enough. I want to know how to really turn him on? Also how to make him want to have sex again ? And how can I make his orgasm more powerful? :confused: help

It sounds as if you boyfriend takes several hours to recover after orgasm. Why do you want to do it again? If you do not have an orgasm or two before he does, wanting more certainly makes sense.

Putting off his orgasm, making him wait, teasing him will cause him to have a more powerful one. Waiting several days between sexual episodes works too. Men are motivated by the exitement element more than the orgasm in most cases. Orgasm is fairly easy for them.

Why are you attempting to continue when he is clearly done?

Normal... we have to have time to recover after getting off. And that time can vary greatly from person to person, and even day to day. There is little you can do to change that.

Men often take time to "recover" after having an orgasm. I recommend doing activities (like bring in a vibrator or clitoral stimulation) that will give you several orgasms and the ability to keep going when he's finished.

I agree with Simone that the key to a more powerful orgasm is usually prolonging the process before orgasm. Lots of teasing tends to do it. Although I wonder, does he want a stronger orgasm or do you want him to have one?

Perhaps the question is why you have to go again straight after sex, and not why he can't.

Why do you still feel excited? If the sex was satisfying then you should, ideally, feel relaxed and mellow. Granted, sometimes the appetite can be whetted and you want more, but if he can't then get yourself a vibrator and he can suck your nipples or stimulate you in some other way.

Probably would help if you sucked on his again, like he would push you away! Easy!