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Is he still attracted to me?

Asked Feb 20, 2012, 07:38 AM — 1 Answer
Help! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year, and we have has sex a lot of times. About a month ago we had sex and he ejaculated really quick, every time after that he has done the same. Yesterday we were going to have sex for the first time in 2 weeks and I wanted to really bad. We haven't had sex in awhile because he would ejaculate so quick(about 30 to 1 minute)that I just didn't enjoy it anymore. I was giving him head and he was hard, but as soon as he was going to put it in he went down and didn't come back up. It made me really confused because its never happened before. We usually have a really good sex life but recently I feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore. He has been watching porn lately so I thought he was like sex deprived or something. So I tried to have sex with him. And then he just didn't get up to me any more. What's wrong?
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Mar 1, 2012, 08:25 PM
I'm no sex expert but it sounds like he lost confidence. Confidence really does affect performance. Let him know not to worry. So I'd suggest really sitting down and talking to him about it. Also YES he is attracted to you, why would he not be? Hes still trying to have sex with you right? And believe it or not guys CAN be emotionally attached too. Its not all about apperence. So if you've been going out for a year maybe you being you can turn him on.

Hope I helped a little bit at least.

PS He's watching porn because he's a guy hehe.
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