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I was working in the same company were my Bf is the co-owner we're leaving together for almost 9 months. He's a hot and attractive guy I can tell that coz a lot of our employee has a crush on him. One of the employee really likes him to the point that she was offering her body towards him. This girl was my friend before but when somebody told me that she was spreading gossip that my Bf likes her I stop talking to her and told her to back off. I really don't know whats the real score between them, when I asked my guy if he likes the girl he said NO and I'm the greatest girl for him!! Until one weekend he went out for a drink with this girl and other employee's. He went home really drunk and suddenly he cried out. He confessed what he did in the bar. He said when he went to the comfort room to pee the girl followed him and insisted to give him head because he was so drunk he can't control his self and he let the girl to go down on him. According to him he didn't finished because he suddenly remember me so she stop the girl. This girl was the reason why we almost break up before coz I found out that they were exchanging text, he put the girls name under a friend name to hide it from me and he's kinda attracted to her. He asked for second chance that he'll not gonna do it again, that time he was crying and I seen the guilt feelings while he was saying sorry. but he was drunk when he confessed it. When he was sober he explained everything to me he say he was honest now and can't hide, It just so happened because he was so drunk and the girl initiated the move. It was so painful when i heard it. Its like I was broken and teared coz he cheated on me.
I wanna kick the girl coz she's really a dirty slut. I need an advise what to do with the girl that until now is still working in the company. To my Bf that I know I love him and I can forgive him but the problem now is I can't trust him, I don't have peace of mind. I'm afraid that he might able to it again.
Remember it takes two to tango. You can't blame her and let him off the hook. That is not fair to either party. Will he do it again... probably. He may say he loves you and he may really care about you, but something in his mind validated his actions. Not to mention the fact that he was hiding the text messages. Time to get a new friend, BF, and maybe even a new job. Life is too short for this much drama. Good luck.
I would disappear from both of them. YOU are too young to be caught up in that tangled wb. YOu said she is a dirty slut right? Well now he has her cooties too. STD's can be spread through the mouth too ya know.. MAybe he is sorry, maybe he did make a mistake and regret it. BUT if he gets drunk again, what's to say he won't give in to temptation again. I have been so drunk off my a$$ I could barely see, but I never did anything I didn't want to. So, either way, he wanted it whether she initiated it or not. NOt to say they will be boyfriend and girlfriend, but if she puts out, he will probably never say no! I hope the best for you, you deserve way better. IT may feel like 9 months is a long time to give it up, but better you get out now before you two end up married with kids, and he still does this type of crap on the down low!!
I think he said that to make it seem not so bad. WHAT guy stops right before they ?? NOT MANY I PRESUME, because at that point it feels too good to care. MAybe after he came he thought about her but just told her otherwise so she wouldn't feel as horrible. Either way a blow job is a blow job, regardless if he cums, or NOT. But I too think that is a crock of bullsh!t he is feeding her!! I hope she can get away from him and find someone better....
I would disappear from both of them. YOU are too young to be caught up in that tangled wb. YOu said she is a dirty slut right? Well now he has her cooties too. STD's can be spread through the mouth too ya know.. MAybe he is sorry, maybe he did make a mistake and regret it. BUT if he gets drunk again, what's to say he won't give in to temptation again. I have been so drunk off my a$$ I could barely see, but I never did anything I didn't want to. So, either way, he wanted it whether she initiated it or not. NOt to say they will be boyfriend and girlfriend, but if she puts out, he will probably never say no! I hope the best for you, you deserve way better. IT may feel like 9 months is a long time to give it up, but better you get out now before you two end up married with kids, and he still does this type of crap on the down low!!
shatteredsoul Have to 'spread it' again girlfriend! Nine months is nothing compared to a lifetime.
hot2hndle (curious username).. I'm sure that you know what should be done - and believe me, getting rid of this girl, either in his life or at the workplace is not the answer.
It's not like tearing out a page in a book because you did not like what you read. The only one you have control over in this is YOU. Do you want to stay with him - always doubting, always being stressed and jealous and insecure. Or, dealing with a clean break-up, healing, growth, maturity and self-respect. Take a realistic look at your options and make your choice.
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These faces are so friggin adorable MON CHERY!!! YES, you hit the nail on the head. Either get rid of him, or stay and deal with everything she just mentioned and MORE!!!
HE may be hot, but it ain't worth your integrity girl!!!
shatteredsoul Have to 'spread it' again girlfriend! Nine months is nothing compared to a lifetime. 
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