hi,
well my boyfriend and i have been going out now for about 6 months and i can't seem to have an orgasim. It's not only frustrating to me but to him too. He tries really hard and i hate leaving him feeling like he isn't pleasing me. I was wondering if maybe having low iron in my blood could be a problem or if someone could recomend something to help me.
thanks.

Skell

im not sure about the iron in the blood but has he attempted to satisfy you orally? this is the best way to stimulate the clitoris!
You and him can check out this site

www.askmen.com

it is a site designed for males but it covers alot of things in regards to sex and its pleasures. Just dont be offended with some of the male terms the authors use at times.

it is about experimenting and finding what is right for you.

i hope you dont just rush into the intercourse hoping for an orgasm. there should be consdierable foreplay to ensure you are ready to be satisfied.

Anyway check out that site and see if ti can help you two!

jimfun71

You, like most women are not stimulated by penatration. Almost all women are stimulated to orgasam by clitoral stimulation. "Flickin the bean if you know what I mean." You should experiment with your body by yourself and with your partner. Try diffrent things, teach him what makes you feel good.

Amythest

Sometimes it isn't even thta the physical part is wrong I find sometimes that if I am just emotionall there fully, or that there is so many streeses on my mind, or I am worried, I can't have an orgasm, where as at other times when I am there I can....So does this sound like you? Definatly try the stimulating the clitoris, or positions that will stimulate them both, but if you still have problems, then maybe ( if you are like me) you are not emotionaly connected.