Dear Nadine, if you are not fibbing about your age, you are 19. Congratulations on waiting this long to ask a question of this type. If you have a 'steady' boyfriend, the best thing would be to ask him what he likes since this is a personal experience between you two and you should communicate about such issues if your goals are to make each other happy, just as you should be able to tell him what you like. If you have not heard about a book called Kamasutra yet, it's published in many versions, look one up and both of you read it. I'd get it at a bookstore as there are many to choose from. This way you can both find out what your tastes are and also learn that there is nothing to be ashamed of between two consenting adults. One thing, please, do remember that condoms (even during oral sex, some even have different flavors) are very important, even if you are on the pill, because the pill does not protect you from HIV, Herpes, and other STDs and it would be a shame to get pregnant or worse when not ready to take on the responsibilities or consequences. As a matter of fact, you should both get blood tests to reassure a carefree process of learning and developing your sexuality. Apparently you feel you cannot talk to your parents about this subject or you would not have posted it here. Too bad because it's really a parent's duty to teach their children about safety in any aspect of their lives - and also about sex, maybe not getting into such detail, but at least let you know about the literature that is available once you are ready to learn. Good luck and enjoy life - most of all be safe!.
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