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Asked Feb 2, 2010, 03:13 PM — 22 Answers
Had sex with this girl..... Called her up a couple of days later and asked if she wanted to watch a movie with me at her place and she said ok...... So I call her up to tell her ill be there in an hour and she says she`s watching something with a friend and I ask should I still come over and she was like not today?
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:16 PM
Could I ask what age you are please?
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:18 PM
I'm 22 why
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:19 PM
It sounds like there was no firm date and time. It's not a good idea to suddenly, when you're available, assume the other person is too. Obviously, she wasn't.

Try this: Make a date with her by calling her a week or even several days ahead and pinning down a specific time, place, and activity. "I'd love to take you ice fishing next Saturday morning. The fish start biting around 9.m., so how about if I pick you up at 8:30?"

See how that works? Then you'll have a plan, and no one is put on the spot.
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:21 PM
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Im 22 why
This is why....

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-s...ality-u-b.html
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:24 PM
I did I told her I'm getting off work ar 12am and that ill then come over and we can watch the movie but I got off work at 11pm and called her... Then she told me that
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:24 PM
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ck-437341.html

Your just out of a relationship,and perhaps in need of some comfort,and while I agree with wondergirls advice,perhaps she was just blowing you off,or not that into you.

Being so recently out of emotional turmoil,may make you come across as needy.
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:27 PM
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Ok got it I hope my question is not inapropriat
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:30 PM
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ok got it I hope my question is not inapropriat
Nope, not at all!
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Feb 2, 2010, 03:33 PM
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It sounds like there was no firm date and time. It's not a good idea to suddenly, when you're available, assume the other person is too. Obviously, she wasn't.

Try this: Make a date with her by calling her a week or even several days ahead and pinning down a specific time, place, and activity. "I'd love to take you ice fishing next Saturday morning. The fish start biting around 9.m., so how about if I pick you up at 8:30?"

See how that works? Then you'll have a plan, and no one is put on the spot.
I did I told her I'm getting off work ar 12am and that ill then come over and we can watch the movie but I got off work at 11pm and called her... Then she told me that
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