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Guys, can you become aroused just by looking at a fully-dressed, attractive woman?

Asked Feb 15, 2009, 08:36 AM — 19 Answers
My question precisely My friend thinks this happened to her the other day. A guy she thinks fancies her was looking at her, starting at her face for about 15-20 minutes, and she could tell he was all aroused
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Feb 15, 2009, 11:16 AM
Yes and in fact they say that it is more likely than with guys who stare at pornography all the time and become desensitized. When a guy finds a girl attractive it doesn't matter what she is wearing and may find her even more attractive than a room full of skimpily clad girls.
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Feb 15, 2009, 11:47 AM
Most defiantly. If a man finds a woman attractive he can get aroused even if he is not in the same state as her. Just the thought if a woman a man is attracted to can bring up feelings and thoughts that will make a man very aroused and turned on.

So lets say this man that your friend says is attracted to her has been been looking at her all day and thoughts are going through his mind. Thoughts such as taking her close off and making passionate love to her, giving her a long slow massage and so on. You can see were he could get aroused.

My question would be can't the same be said for women as well.
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Feb 15, 2009, 12:03 PM
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My question would be can't the same be said for women as well.
Personally, I wouldn't stare at a really attractive guy and start fantasizing about him on the spot.... But this is just me, I guess.

You guys seem to be very imaginative
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Feb 15, 2009, 12:11 PM
...OR we know some 'very imaginative' people
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Feb 15, 2009, 12:33 PM
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...OR we know some 'very imaginative' people
We should probably get credit for feeding guys' imagination
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Feb 15, 2009, 02:00 PM
Definitely. Although staring for 15-20 minutes ! Makes him sound creepy and a little weird
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Feb 15, 2009, 04:25 PM
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definitely. Although staring for 15-20 minutes ! Makes him sound creepy and a little weird
I know! But they were sitting across the table from each other, facing each other
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Feb 15, 2009, 05:25 PM
15 to 20 minutes sounds either extremely shy or even a little stalkerish.
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Feb 16, 2009, 05:18 AM
Staring for more than a little bit at someone is just damn creepy....


But yes a well dressed ( as in very well groomed) attractive woman can be arousing and no...porn does not desesitize you any more than soap operas desensitize women to romance.
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