Okay so I fell in love with this girl back in last September and now it is April. I found out in December she is still talking to her ex who is in jail, they can somehow talk through the phone, I didn't know that was possible. Anyway, I love having sex with her up until recently. I either bust too fast or can't stay hard, and if I don't make her *** she bugs the hell out and will say mean stuff to me. I tried to tell her that its because I'm afraid I won't please her cause there is too much pressure, and I can't stop thinking about her talking to her ex. The problem is I love her and I only fell for her because I didn't know she was "using" me until December. But I chose to ignore it because I really liked her. She practically almost admitted it to me that they are getting back togethor when he gets out in January, I read the letters he wrote and she still keeps in contact with the family saying on their Facebook wall that she loves him and will always wait for him. So that is originally why I lost my hard, because I couldn't stand to think she was using me, then she got pissed I couldn't make her ***, so now I have two problems with sex. Before all this, she said I was so good because she never had anyone stimulate her **** before and *** at the same time while having sex, so that was her best orgasm. I know I can do it, I never had this problem before and I love her so I can't end it. But latly she has been really *****y, sometimes refuse to kiss me hello or good bye. So that all sticks in my head during sex, I was planning on using her back until I found someone else or until the ex gets out of jail but I can't stop thinking about it so sex isn't fun anymore... We really got along when I didn't know about all this b.s.. But now its even effecting hanging out. We acted like best friends, and I think she is so stupid because I know she loves me, she admitted it several times. But her ex is her first true love and she is sickly addicted to him. Tonight I almost ended it but I was afraid because every time I do, I end up missing her then calling her to get back togethor. She is all I really think about, I hope one day I could either move on but its impossible, or get her to realize I am better for her (win her over)... Either way I want sex too, not to sound selfish, but now that's not working either =\. I need serious advice please...