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Old Oct 30, 2007, 03:24 PM
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my girlfriend thinks shes Bi

just like the title says my girlfriend think shes Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl.

Is my girlfriend really Bi?
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Old Oct 30, 2007, 03:59 PM   #2  
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i feel the same lol but i dont no if i am Bi
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It does not make her Bisexual-no she is not, otherwise she would want to have sex with girls.
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I do not see anything wrong about a woman finding another woman attractive - does not mean it is sexual. Women can appreciate beauty in other women. I think Catherine Zeta-Jones is beautiful but that does not make me bisexual.

What are worried about here? That your gf would find another woman more attractive than you? I would say you do not have that worry, or else she would not be with you.
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If the thought of actually doing something with the same sex repulses her then she is not gay or bi.
Often a girl will admire (a) physical characteristic(s) of another girl and/or find some personality qualities attractive, but it is more of an envy type thing than an I want them so I must be.....
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lol thanks for the advice. i even told her she isn't Bi before i even posted this thread. Shygrneyzs makes an excellent point
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just like the title says my girlfriend think shes Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl.

Is my girlfriend really Bi?
Well this can mean a number of things. Most woman thinks that another woman is attractive but usually this is shown with y remarks as they are jelous. many woman fantazise over lesbian action. Most woman when watching porn with there partner finder that girl on girl porn is a bigger turn on than male and female i think its more of a desire to most woman obvioulsly other woman have there relationsops this way but to others its a desire to be found sexy in both male and female eyes.
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yeah, if she wouldn't be interested in actually having a girlfriend, she is not bi.
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She might be Bi, who knows, but what an opportunity for you. Why don't you ask her to find out if she is but instead of doing it on her own you will provide additional support by joining in!! The risk is she might then prefer female company, but hay what an experience for you, some risks are worth taking.
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just like the title says my girlfriend think shes Bi because she finds girls attractive, but at the same time she can never date a girl. Is my girlfriend really Bi?
Hello at:

I'm old so I don't know EXACTLY what the term "date" means today. To me, it means going out in the world with somebody and spending time. I think to you it means screwing. I dunno.

But, I'll bet you this. If the two of you manage to get a girl in the sack with you, your girlfriend'll do her - and you'll enjoy the crap out of it.

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