Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2months now and she always wants to come over and see me, says she misses me and wants cuddles and loves massages and stuff but as soon as the massage or tickles start to lead into sex she rolls over or says she is too tired. When we first met the sex was wild and crazy and we had sex for about 1hour or longer and was amazing for the first 2 times... then she said she is on her period and cant have sex otherwise it will be messy and I'm like I don't care... so we put down a towel on the bed and it wasn't even messy. Problem is... she never wants to have sex anymore and when we do have sex it only usually lasts for 10-20minutes max not like 30-45-1hour like it should... otherwise what's the point right... I usually can go for about 45minutes to an hour and most girls complain when guys cant go for longer then 2minutes... I don't understand. I am always horny like most guys are and when I get to see my baby girl I want to make love to her and have sex... there is only so much kissing and cuddling you can do... and what else ? She always says to me are you done yet... its starting to hurt. Or that when we first have sex have to put on a lot of lube because its hard to get it in there and she usually won't let me put it in. she wants to put it in and go slow for the first few minutes because it hurts too much... do you think she is a virgin. I mean we had sex twice now so she isn't anymore if I'm her first but she is 21 and she is like a size 6/8. I'm starting to think maybe there is something wrong with me. Or her... I'm not sure which one... this is starting to do my head in. I tried really hard the next time we had sex to *** within 20minutes and she was happy that I *** before she did. Or before it hurt... but the thing is... I Don't HAVE SEX TO JUST PLEASE MYSELF. I DO THE SEX TO GET HER WET AND MAKE HER *** OR ORGASM and get her off. I don't care I can just have a wank and get myself anytime... suppose she can too. But its hard for me to ask and explain this on a forum that won't have a diss or hate or maybe laugh about it because its serious to me and I am looking for answers... most girls complain when guys are too short don't they?? What do you think the problem is here. I look in the mirror and think I have a nice body and I'm attractive looking guy who has a lot going for him and she says she always want to see me be with me and misses me... she bought all this sexy stuff from a sex party like uniforms and toys and crap but never uses them?? I'm running out of ideas and as much as I just want to have sex with someone else right now because of this. I wouldn't do that to her because I love her too much and never want to cheat on her but you can understand how I feel right?? Please help and give me answers... thank you community