My girlfriend and I have been dating for close to eight months now. And the relationships as a whole is great. We share a lot of interests but still have enough difference to keep things exciting and allow for space when needed. The only thing is, she doesn't seem to want to ever have sex with me. On that rare occasion when we do (3-4) times a month, it is very good. However, 99 % of the sex that we have it is always initiated by me, there by always leaving me to question whether she actually wanted to.

Now we have tried to have open discussions on it (one aspect of our relationship we value most "communication") but every time it comes up it never seems to have a resolution. I feel as though she doesn't think that it is affecting our relationship. That is not to say that I am one of these guys that would dump my girl just because she didn't have sex with me. No, I am merely just stating that it is causing frustration for me i.e. "sexual frustration." This frustration over the past months has caused me to put less effort into being romantic and engaging with her in the daily things we enjoy together. I know that this is frustrating to her and causes wonder. I really try to do things that I feel could "sweep her off her feet" and I have ideas, fortunately I am a hopeless romantic and believe in it. I want to take her places and show her the world. Unfortunately this hopeless romantic has a fairly strong sex drive. I don't know what to do. I would love any real advice that could help. Why Doesn't My Girlfriend Seem To Want To Have Sex With Me?