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Old Jan 28, 2008, 07:51 PM
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My Girlfriend Doesn't Seem To Want Sex

My girlfriend and I have been dating for close to eight months now. And the relationships as a whole is great. We share a lot of interests but still have enough difference to keep things exciting and allow for space when needed. The only thing is, she doesn't seem to want to ever have sex with me. On that rare occassion when we do (3-4) times a month, it is very good. However, 99 % of the sex that we have it is always initiated by me, there by always leaving me to question whether or not she actually wanted to.

Now we have tryed to have open discussions on it (one aspect of our relationship we value most "communication") but every time it comes up it never seems to have a resolution. I feel as though she doesn't think that it is affecting our relationship. That is not to say that I am one of these guys that would dump my girl just because she didn't have sex with me. No, I am merely just stating that it is causing frustration for me i.e. "sexual frustration." This frustration over the past months has caused me to put less effort into being romantic and engaging with her in the daily things we enjoy together. I know that this is frustrating to her and causes wonder. I really try to do things that I feel could "sweep her off her feet" and I have ideas, fortunately I am a hopeless romantic and believe in it. I want to take her places and show her the world. Unfortunately this hopeless romantic has a fairly strong sex drive. I don't know what to do. I would love any real advice that could help. Why Doesn't My Girlfriend Seem To Want To Have Sex With Me?
 
     

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Old Nov 5, 2009, 09:33 PM   #11  
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Well what IS the difference between a 'friend' and a 'girlfriend' ?

FRIEND:
"We talk, tell jokes, tell our intimate secrets and feelings to each other, we've cried together,
we do fun stuff, and we generally feel good with each other"

GIRLFRIEND:
All of the above, PLUS we are physically intimate. And our 'faithfulness' depends on the fact
that we're ONLY physically intimate with each other.


So...is this guy cheating if he needs to feel physically close with a woman and his
eff'd up "girlfriend" won't let him??

Dude...just start making friends with lots of people, eventually you will find
the right match for you.
 
 
     
 
 
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