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    Apr 9, 2009, 03:53 PM
    Getting boyfriend in bed
    My man loves to please me we have not had sex and he says it isn't time how do I get him in bed? No there is nothing wrong with him it works just fine.
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    Apr 9, 2009, 04:22 PM

    How long have you been together he may need more time there are still men un the world that are waiters is he religious
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    Apr 9, 2009, 04:47 PM

    Have the two you ever had sex before with one another?

    You said "he loves to please you and I am an assuming your talking about his penis when you said it works just fine".

    Have you talked to him about why he doesn't want to have sex?

    I can give you different ways on how to seduce him and it may or may not work but ultimately the choice is his.
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    Apr 9, 2009, 04:54 PM
    More details... "you have not had sex"... ever? Lately? What's the situation?

    You need to talk more about the whole relationship. How old. How long sexually active. In what ways. Any changes in life. Moving in. living together. Job stress. School stress.

    etc.

    The OP is vague.
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    Apr 9, 2009, 05:54 PM

    Its not up to you is it. It is up to you both as a couple. Many questions that you still have yet to answer.

    Age.
    How long you known each other.
    Etc. Etc. Etc.
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    Apr 10, 2009, 05:15 AM

    If you haven't had sex then how do you know "everything works" with him.
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    Apr 10, 2009, 07:21 AM

    Im assuming there may be oral etc. involved. Which is how she would know that he works...

    I want to know, what's the rush? If he says he's not ready, its not fair for you to push it on him. If he knows its something you want to do, then there is no need to push him..

    On that note, if you are giving him oral and/or hand jobs; then he is probably getting all he really wants anyway out of sex. Talk to him why he doesn't want to have sex. If it is a religion thing its hypocritical if you are doing other things.

    Maybe he has an STD he isn't telling you about etc. So talk to him, don't force it on him; and GL :D:D
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    Apr 10, 2009, 11:02 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by CallMeBel View Post
    Im assuming there may be oral etc. involved. Which is how she would know that he works...

    I want to know, whats the rush? If he says he's not ready, its not fair for you to push it on him. If he knows its something you want to do, then there is no need to push him..

    On that note, if you are giving him oral and/or hand jobs; then he is probably getting all he really wants anyways out of sex. Talk to him why he doesn't want to have sex. If it is a religion thing its hypocritical if you are doing other things.

    Maybe he has an STD he isn't telling you about etc. So talk to him, don't force it on him; and GL :D:D
    We can't assume anything. Doing so means one is making assumptions any or all of which can prove to be wrong.

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