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I tried asking this already but I guess it didnt post. But I must know, what are some signs that a man could be gay? What are some signs that he has already had a sexual encounter? please be as detailed as you can this is very important. thank you.
I agre that his reaction could be that of a guilty guy trying to hide something
on the other hand I have seen guys react in the same way when they have a badgering wife that accuses him on empty theories she has formulated in her own mind.
If I asked my hubby whether or not he was gay, he'd be extremely insulted. Of course he's say no, or I'm not going to dignify that with an answer, because he'd be shocked that I even asked.
The OP really needs to get some help, she's very confused, and badgering her husband with all these questions isn't going to change the situation they're in, if anything it will only make it worse.
Why don't you post all the things you say your husband is doing on ONE post THEN maybe somebody can help you. Your first two posts you claim he is a strong Christian that would not cheat. Then you say he must be cheating. Then you accuse him of all kinds of things that you do not back up with anything that he does. Then you ask if he can be gay. Then you ask if he is narcissistic. Now you are claiming he is into drugs. Then you criticize replies
but HOW can we help if you keep changing your story and adding stuff and NOT saying WHAT things he IS doing that make you feel this way. He is ignoring you and acting strange basically.
We are NOT mind readers. We do not know WHAT he is doing to have you so upset.
I think she's just a nervous wreck and reads too much into ordinary everyday things. Maybe hubby is fed up, if she acts like this here, can you imagine what she's like at home. Always asking questions, are you on drugs, are you gay, are you cheating? That's got to get annoying after a while.
im asking to figure out how to manage it. what exactly did i say that would make you pass judgement. if you were a so called "expert" than you would realize that all my questions have to do with this one complex issue. a husband with a drug history cheats. wow is that really all that unbeleivable. i am struggling right now with this, and i dont want to blame him i want to try to do what i can to fix the situation but im trying to find out if that is even possbile. what because im trying to understand him and am actually trying to work it out im weird. you dont know me......but you seem to be pretty miserable. im guessing you are single arent you and hate everybody huh..........oh you poor thing you just didnt get hugged enough did you. well kiddo try really hard to have a good day anyways by the way what are the qualifications to say your an expert? I didnt realize that at "ASK ME HELP DESK" there were only certain questions that were acceptable. i guess i could just ask you first to make sure that they were ok????
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