hello everyone. Im new to this service. I am a 32 year old female, who has been dating a 26 year old guy for about 2 months. I met him about a year ago, and up until 2 months ago, really only hung out with him with our other friends. We both knew there was something there, had not had the opportunity to act on those feeling until 2 months ago. He used to work with one of my best friends (Gay). The love interest and I have been hanging out, and have made out a few times since late Feb. The first time that he kissed me was on the street after coming back from a club. My gay friend happened to be down the street and saw us kissing. Since that evening my gay friend has been saying all these comments about me and my love interest. Insinuating we were totally inappropriate that night in the club. We weren't, we just danced all night long and kissed at the end of a fun night. I didn't know that was inappriopriate.

Now I find out that my gay friend and his partner were talking about my love interest saying that he is gay. I have confronted them about it, by asking what information they have to make this claim. The only thing they say is that he has gay mannerisms. ANd since I am not gay I do not notice them. They have never heard him talk about men, be with men, etc,etc....so why are they talking to other people saying that I am blind, and that my love interest is gay????Now they are backtracking, and saying that nobody can know someone elses sexuality unless the two involved.

Please help, because I am very upset at my friends, and I do not know how to handle the situation.

sxybaby1

this is a tuff 1 i find it hard 2 believe that ur friend is just saying this as he talks to his partner about it if he fancies him he wouldnt do that. talk 2 him let him know wats being said about him ifs its true you will no from the way he responds. he may be bi an that in its self is hard enough 2 deal wiv i wish u well. x

Sam DePecan