Hi Everyone,

My wife and I have been married for over 2 years! We have recently experienced some communication problems with each other and now she is not wanting to have sex that much anymore. She says her peak has passed her (she is 30)! Any suggestions!

1momof8

Hi,
My husband and I were married at 20 years old and have now been married 16 years. I understand your frustration and I definitely know how she feels too. it isnt till recently I felt like our marriage was falling apart, we were never having sex. I never wanted it because he was always doing the same routine over and over, I needed something different. I wasnt sure whether I had ever orgasmed in 16 years! I was talking to my best friend about what else I can do to reach an orgasm. She told me something I didnt want to hear, "try a vibrator". Well I finally got the nerve up to purchase one...wow....it worked! I now know what it feels like and I know now what stimulation my body needs to obtain that wonderful thing God created! So what I would suggest to her is to ask if she would like to try something like that. I know that not being able to orgasm is disappointed and discouraging, I faked it for years and he doesnt know that.. Save your sex life and add some spice! Good Luck!