Basically I'm 19 and a virgin, wanting to wait until marriage for full intercourse but I'm exploring my sexuality. I recently got fingered by a guy and the first time I did with him a few weeks before this it was fine, it just hurt a little, naturally. The second time it hurt a lot and I started to bleed a bit after. Is that meant to happen? And if so is it because he went too deep? Has it got something to do with the hymen? A few hours later and I'm still sore, is that meant to happen?

I DO apologise about the intense description but too shy to ask anyone I know! Any help would be much appreciated.