over the weekend I found my fiances porn collection. first let me tell you he is a basketball coach/ social studies teacher a a prodminatley black high school. I am mixed half colombian half black 19 year old girl and he is white 29 year old man. I've been out of highschool for about 2 years now and am very independent for my age. I used to have issues with the fact that he taught seniors that were basically my age or a couple years younger but it faded away until now. His porn collection consists of older white men having sex with young black girls i.e. black girls on their 18th birthday, black girls pretending to be virgins, black girls in cheerleading and school uniforms and black girls pretending they don't want to have sex. I am very worried now and I feel i need wo do something but I don't know what. What should I do?

Choux

Sounds like he has a fixation-fetish for young black girls.

chrissymarie

But do you think it will lead to him preying on girls at the highschool he works at?

Choux

Yes....I would report him to the police, but I feel I can't tell you to do that. He is a high school teacher in possession of child pornography. The porn is advertised as using "18 year olds" but that is just a cover-up for distributing child porn.

Take care of yourself....

chrissymarie

Is this really that serious. He never speaks of wanting to have sex with young girls and after I found the porn I tested him and roll played like i was a school girl in one of my old costumes from last halloween. It didn't turn him on. he was actually annoyed. I'm really confused.

Fr_Chuck

Well how often does he watch the porn ? he is adicted to the porn ?

But sorry he already sounds like one to me.

Xrayman

okay you are 19 he is 29 he is a white man and you are black?? I don't understand you. Of course he likes young black girls-holy crap.

this fetish is a problem for him if his school/pricipal/teachers/mothers/fathers of the schoolgirls finds out-so I think he was worried about you doing the Schoolgirl thing. It would worry me if a teacher/coach has a fetish about 14-year-old white schoolgirls (like my daughter) was working at her school!!

I think you may have to tell him-the porn is out! or you are...

Revised 31st April 08... Thanks for the reddie-that helps. I was trying to help you-you could have just replied on the forum.. Either way, does he want to dispose of his "out of date porn"? or is he just still waiting for the next opportunity to fantasise? A teacher/coach should not be doing this PARENTS WOULD BE HORRIFIED IF THEY FOUND OUT!

DrJizzle

ok.. definitely do NOT go running to the cops.. you could jeopardize an innocent mans career over something that could be nothing at all. He is with you.. and you are a 19-year old black girl... why wouldnt he want some porn with 18-19 year old back girls?

Just because he looks at porn doesnt mean hes going to go pedophile on kids at the school he teaches.

Teachers should have the right to look at porn, too.

Talk to him about it, if anything. Dont jump the gun and potentially ruin someones life on a hunch

simoneaugie

I agree, running to the cops may ruin his career. The thing to think about is that you will continue to age. Do you want to be married to this guy when you are 40? His preferences may never affect you or the relationship. Yet, his preference is for young black girls.

Synnen

Are you KIDDING?

Watching legal movies about girls who are ADULTS is suddently "child porn"?

Oh Jesus.

EVERYTHING in the media makes the 18 year old girl the standard for beauty--movies (including Disney), models, advertising, magazines, etc--and then people get ticked when someone is attracted to that?

As to the OP--YOU are a young (half) black girl. If he wasn't attracted to young black girls, he wouldn't be with YOU. I personally have always been attracted to guys who are tall, stocky, and shave their heads. Does that mean Mr. Clean is pornography for me?

Oh please. Seriously. If the porn in general concerns you, talk to him about it. But I sincerely doubt that he's a closet pedophile just waiting for his students to come on to him.