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Female unable to orgasm, urinates when near orgasm
This is a complicated question. My girlfriend has never been able to have an orgasm. While performing oral sex, i found a spot on the clitorus where it seems like i could give her an orgasm. When it seems like she is starting to have an orgasm, she begins to urinate. I do believe it is urine due to the amount of fluid, and the fact that it comes during clitoral stimulation and not G-spot stimulation. She says she cannot stop this, and it is due to some kind of contractions. Is this common at all? Is there anything I (we) can do to help the situation? Worst case scenario, will she have a full orgasm if I dont stop if this happens?
This is a complicated question. My girlfriend has never been able to have an orgasm. While performing oral sex, i found a spot on the clitorus where it seems like i could give her an orgasm. When it seems like she is starting to have an orgasm, she begins to urinate. I do believe it is urine due to the amount of fluid, and the fact that it comes during clitoral stimulation and not G-spot stimulation. She says she cannot stop this, and it is due to some kind of contractions. Is this common at all? Is there anything I (we) can do to help the situation? Worst case scenario, will she have a full orgasm if I dont stop if this happens?
I had the same problem. The first time it happened, it was self-inflicted & I was just plain dumbfounded. But its definately NOT urine. I understand exactly what she means when she says she doesn't think its an orgasm, but there are 2 different kinds. The first is just an obvious orgasm & the other one is what your girl is experiencing. Pure clitoral stimulation is the cause of this (at least for me it is) it doesn't necessarily feel like a regular orgasm even though you literaly '' & It may have a smell or a taste to it, but '' & urine are 2 totaly different things.
Everytime this has happened to me, there was a substantial amount & it is VERY common. There are pornos specifically about 'squirting' & you will notice that ALOT comes out. Im sure that some of it very well could be urine, but i guarantee that the majority is not. If you don't stop when this happens, she will most definately have a full orgasm. Ive found that when my man keeps going I orgasm pretty fast b/c it had made me much more sensitive. but just incase I wasnt able to help, please go to this website & you'll find out everything you need to know from a scientific standpoint.
ok how about you try looking at where the fluid is coming from. women who ejaculate usually produce a large amount of fluid and it has a much stronger odor than recular secretions that lubricate the vaginal canal. so it may seem like urine. there is a tiny hole about the vaginal opening and below the clitoris if the fluid is coming from there then it's urine if not then its vaginal secretions. next time it happens try to get a closer look. she may not realize it if it is an orgasm b/c she doesn't know what to expect an orgasm to feel like.
I'll be honest, im a squirter/gusher and sometimes it happens and i dont feel it coming until it comes out so it feels a little weird. the first time it happened i thought it was pee but it wasn't (thank goodness)
good luck
Id go with the shower it'd might help her relax adn not feel so imbarrased about this. seems to me like she is a squirter. she needs to relax and not worry about it. if she doesnt and is constantly focus on it, she probably wont orgasm. if it doesnt bother you, let her know. if youre ok with it, let her know that. its ok, normal. once she gets that she hopefully should be able to.
its really squirting im a female and i would know cause i do. when you urinate you really can stop think about it. but squrting its very hard to stop it hust keeps going like a waterfall untill the water runs out its self
This is a complicated question. My girlfriend has never been able to have an orgasm. While performing oral sex, i found a spot on the clitorus where it seems like i could give her an orgasm. When it seems like she is starting to have an orgasm, she begins to urinate. I do believe it is urine due to the amount of fluid, and the fact that it comes during clitoral stimulation and not G-spot stimulation. She says she cannot stop this, and it is due to some kind of contractions. Is this common at all? Is there anything I (we) can do to help the situation? Worst case scenario, will she have a full orgasm if I dont stop if this happens?
I may be the same as your girl; I went to the doc the morning after the first time it happened and he pressed on the exact spot and produced about 2 - 3 ounces of a bodily fluid that was (THANK GOSH) not urine. Some of us women "squirt" lubricant when stimulated a certain way..
She is having a lovely time when she does that darling.
Carry on.
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