Hello.
I am 17 and I have been having sex for quite a while now, the problem is I feel nothing from sex. I feel things from Oral, and thats it. I know its to do with the clitoris, and people have said try going on top so you rub against it. How exactly is this done?
I'm thinking of going to see the doctor about my problem just to get checked out however I am very embarrassed due to my age, I also have not spoke to my mom or anybody close to me about this.
My boyfriend and I tried lifting my legs up during sex, and it hurt an extreme amount, we tried this a few times but It didnt seem to get any better. Where as somebody else I spoke to said they did it with the legs up, in which it hurt but then after doing that for a while it got better? is this true?
I would really like to talk to somebody who is going through the same experience as me, and I would like to hear your advice and opinions please.
Thankyou.
Amy.

Xrayman

Amy,

orgasm is more likely for a woman, when she is stimulated by herself or partner on the clitoris-sexual positioning is really okay ONCE you can climax with stimulation from external (first) then if you are lucky (maybe) internal stimulation.

the position you describe that you tried seem to be WAY off! the position is more like riding a horse-you on top sliding down and forwards so that the clitoris touches the base or whole length of the penis-you have to ride up and down-your legs are not to be bent backwards! that will most likely hurt your back!

cheers and good luck with your exploits!