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Asked Aug 19, 2012, 03:33 PM — 3 Answers
Hi, I am 32 years old unmarried woman. I was having sex with my boyfriend for the past 2 years.at the time of our first time sex, my vaginal hole was tight and normal.but after our continuous intercourse (in these 2 years, we had 30 times at-least like once in 10 days or once in a month) my vaginal hole became enlarged. He too noticed and told me in the last 3 attempts.

Now he left me alone and I too found difficult to convince him to stay with me back. My life is going in tears that he left me. Now my parents started searching another guy for marriage to me. Suppose if I will get marry, I fear whether my marital partner may doubt seeing my vaginal at the time of sex. If my marital partner suspect that the vaginal hole became large due to past time sex for girls, again I will have to face another disappointment.. Please suggest me, is there any way to make my vaginal hole tight?
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Aug 19, 2012, 05:33 PM
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Hi, I am 32 years old unmarried woman. I was having sex with my boyfriend for the past 2 years.at the time of our first time sex, my vaginal hole was tight and normal.but after our continuous intercourse (in these 2 years, we had 30 times at-least like once in 10 days or once in a month) my vaginal hole became enlarged. He too noticed and told me in the last 3 attempts.

Now he left me alone and I too found difficult to convince him to stay with me back. My life is going in tears that he left me. Now my parents started searching another guy for marriage to me. Suppose if I will get marry, I fear whether my marital partner may doubt seeing my vaginal at the time of sex. If my marital partner suspect that the vaginal hole became large due to past time sex for girls, again I will have to face another disappointment.. Please suggest me, is there any way to make my vaginal hole tight?

Do you intend to lie to your marital partner about your sexual history?

At any rate I doubt you are "stretched out," but here's an exercise: Just as working your biceps firms up your arms, working your pubococcygeus muscle — a main muscle of your pubic region — can tone up your vadge. Besides giving you a tighter grip during sex, it also may make it easier to climax. Here's how to exercise your V: Clamp down as if you're stopping your urine flow, hold for 10 seconds, then release. Do 2 sets of 10 to 20 a day; you'll notice a difference in about a month.
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Aug 19, 2012, 06:11 PM
Um......Who is your boyfriend? A horse?

Seriously your Vagina doesn't get bigger from having sex with a human male. Sorry, hate to tell you, DOESN'T happen.

It might get looser as you age from loss of muscle tone...having sex if anything will help the muscle tone.
I think he's a jerk that was planning on leaving you and when you presented that opening to him he grabbed it and ran.
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Aug 19, 2012, 06:30 PM
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Um......Who is your boyfriend? A horse?

Seriously your Vagina doesn't get bigger from having sex with a human male. Sorry, hate to tell you, DOESN'T happen.

It might get looser as you age from loss of muscle tone...having sex if anything will help the muscle tone.
I think he's a jerk that was planning on leaving you and when you presented that opening to him he grabbed it and ran.

And on this note, say good night Gracie.
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