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Old Nov 17, 2006, 07:19 PM
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I Fake My Orgasim

Hi i am 20 years old and my boyfirend and i have been going out for a year now but i know i fake my orgasims with him when we have sex. what should i do? i want to feel having my orgasim soo bad even though i only herd from my friends how it feels i never felt it. there was this one time when we went at the beach an had sex on the sand an that was the only time i think i was really close to having my orgasim. but it never happened. i get wet really fast but i just never come i dont knwo why? please help me....each time i fake my orgsim i feel really bad when i am done because i am unsatisfied but cant say because i dont knwo what i am supposed to feel or even do to get one and at the same time i dont want to make my partner dissapointed that he did not please me.... please help..
 
     

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Old Feb 11, 2007, 07:03 AM   #21  
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Make him you first by oral sex then let him do his job that is the best way
from a guys standpoint, id agree... that its more certain to happen consistently if the girl receives oral first to climax... or at least oral first to get her closer and then intercourse, with her likely on top, to finish the deal.

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laylow80 agrees: that's usually how it is for me. Good advice. :-)
 
 
     
 
 
Old Feb 11, 2007, 03:58 PM   #22  
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Hi i am 20 years old and my boyfirend and i have been going out for a year now but i know i fake my orgasims with him when we have sex. what should i do? i want to feel having my orgasim soo bad even though i only herd from my friends how it feels i never felt it. there was this one time when we went at the beach an had sex on the sand an that was the only time i think i was really close to having my orgasim. but it never happened. i get wet really fast but i just never come i dont knwo why? please help me....each time i fake my orgsim i feel really bad when i am done because i am unsatisfied but cant say because i dont knwo what i am supposed to feel or even do to get one and at the same time i dont want to make my partner dissapointed that he did not please me.... please help..
I faked orgasms just because I couldn’t achieve them... I didn't want my husband to know it. But thanks God there are lots of ways to improve it. I kept a special diet and took Sentia. Now I don't fake them because I'm able to reach them.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Feb 11, 2007, 06:07 PM   #23  
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You shouldn't fake your orgasm, because that just makes your partner think he is doing the right thing to make you orgasm. I'd confront him about it and tell him about you faking it. Try telling him what feels good, and what could give you your first orgasm. Is he always on top ? or are you? and how much arousal time do you have before the actual intercourse?
 
 
     
 
 
Old Nov 19, 2007, 12:19 AM   #24  
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You may want to try to see if you can make yourself have an orgasm. Try masturbating by yourself, if you don't know how just look for different ways online. I know that it is hard for some girls to achieve an orgasm, but with a little hard work it could happen. Normally I achieve orgasms by stimulating my slowly and and then get more intense. A really great way is while you are taking a shower get the shower head and make sure the water is coming out super fast and hard. Slowly lower it to your clitoris and you should definetly start feeling an orgasm. The best advice to orgasm with your parthner would be to sit on top while having sex and make sure your rubs against him as you go up and down. in order for this you will have to lean more towards him and stick your butt out for maximum stimulation. Hope this helps!
 
 
     
 
 
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