erection: men +30 don't get as stiff..?

Anjel · Jan 13, 2007, 05:07 AM

Hi there..

ok, so maybe I'm totally judgemental...
but in my recent encounters with men over thirty I've always found their erections wanting.

A semi hard erection just hard enough for penetration is not very sexy.

Now, I'm really sweet and very adapt in making people at ease (not that most men who I am with would need that). In addition, I communicate well, and I just don't think its psychological. Maybe its exhaustion (usually late night).

Still.. I just wondered whether I should be concerned.

Is it just me, or does male erection lose on hardness as men age.. and if so, why is that?

Any experts around?

FLTraumaRN911 · Apr 17, 2007, 11:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anjel

Hi there..

ok, so maybe I'm totally judgemental...
but in my recent encounters with men over thirty I've always found their erections wanting.

A semi hard erection just hard enough for penetration is not very sexy.

Now, I'm really sweet and very adapt in making people at ease (not that most men who I am with would need that). In addition, I communicate well, and I just don't think its psychological. Maybe its exhaustion (usually late night).

Still.. I just wondered whether I should be concerned.

Is it just me, or does male erection lose on hardness as men age.. and if so, why is that?

Any experts around?

Anjel,
There are factors that play a role in this, one that is sometimes overlooked is over excitability. Sometimes when a man gets overly excited the male organ can reach full erection but by the time he is ready to perform the act. The erection is only half the fullness as when he first becomes aroused. So you can decrease the length of four play or do as the Porn Industry does and Fluff a little before the act. No I am not in the Porn Industry wrote a thesis paper on it. While in school. Hence a Fluffer is a female whom is used to perform acts on the male organ to regain his erection by manual or oral manipulation. I am now in my 40's and have NO problem getting or keeping one so age is not important unless medical issues are involved.

Matt3046 · Apr 17, 2007, 11:36 PM

I am glad I don't have this problem. Just wanted to say that.

AltaVista · Apr 19, 2007, 08:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anjel

Hi there..

ok, so maybe I'm totally judgemental...
but in my recent encounters with men over thirty I've always found their erections wanting.

A semi hard erection just hard enough for penetration is not very sexy.

Now, I'm really sweet and very adapt in making people at ease (not that most men who I am with would need that). In addition, I communicate well, and I just don't think its psychological. Maybe its exhaustion (usually late night).

Still.. I just wondered whether I should be concerned.

Is it just me, or does male erection lose on hardness as men age.. and if so, why is that?

Any experts around?

Well, I'll be 57 in two months and I haven't changed a bit since I was 20. Apparently I'm very lucky with genetics, hormones, and so on. I get rock hard and last for as long as needed - and even get 'spontaneous' erections from time to time. And two times in a day is still a lot of fun!

Matt3046 · Apr 19, 2007, 08:29 PM

Ever heard the term "so hard a cat can't scratch it"

It's southern humor.

Don't ask what the cat has to do with anything, or if this was actually field tested



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