Hello Everyone,
I recently posted a thread titled Need to Pleasure Her Sexually, but I replied to that thread too many times and it became a bit difficult to follow. Also, I will be more specific and to-the-point in this thread.

How can I engage in rough sex (or sorts) without hurting my girlfriend? Maybe not even necessarily rough sex, as the sex that my girlfriend and I usually have may be extraordinarily "soft" because of me. My lessons in sex involve PG-13ish and soft Rated-R romance comedy movies where people go into the bed, the camera turns away, and then they wake up in the morning cuddling. In other words, the sex that my girlfriend and I engage in is more like cuddling sex, because of me. She recently told me directly (I already gathered this personally) that she does not get turned on unless I am rougher with her. The only rough anything I have been with her is picking her up and tossing her into bed, which... well, isn't much.

Please provide tips about rougher sex (that wouldn't hurt my girlfriend). Thank you.