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Wiser, not older. Honestly, would most men prefer eye-candy that they can't stand or someone that they really get along with and is fun to be with? Beauty is skin deep; b1tch goes all the way to the bone. Would women prefer a stud with six pack abs that is a loser, abuser, cheater, doper, or someone with good character, a slight paunch and a receding hairline?
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Originally Posted by 450donn
As I get older a pretty lady is nice to look at, but I prefer a woman with a stunning personality.
Would women prefer a stud with six pack abs that is a loser, abuser, cheater, doper, or someone with good character, a slight paunch and a receding hairline?
I'm beginning to think that the vast majority of women "who are still available" are looking for the abuser, doper guy with or with out the six pack, but then he will also have to be Donald Trump, Don Jaun, Don Johnson, Don Corleone, Donny Osmond, and Don Knotts all while making them live totally happy forever and ever! Maybe that is why the majority of them are available?
The same type of belief can of course be applied to men. People just are not realistic sometimes as far as relationships. Most don't look past their expectations.
But to answer the question, it is probably an even split... some guys like one area while others tend to like to look elsewhere. Then there are the guys who don't look.
Would women prefer a stud with six pack abs that is a loser, abuser, cheater, doper, or someone with good character, a slight paunch and a receding hairline?
Women prefer the six pack abs loser, alcoholic, drug addict, cheater biker with a tattoo. Class and character mean nothing to women. That is, until they are older and they realized they've wasted their entire youth trying to get with said biker cheater with six pack abs drug addict alcoholic, and they try to find that nice guy she dumped for the drug addict cheater biker alcoholic loser with a six pack, even though he liked her and was respectful to her.
I dated a couple of nice guys (and was bored to TEARS by them because they were TOO nice, and didn't stand up for themselves--it was like dating ME) when I was a teen. I also dated a couple of losers.
At 21 (which is fairly young, I think) I fell for a nice guy who was also a jerk. He didn't treat me like a princess, didn't always buy when we went out, didn't jump when I said toad--I mean, how DARE he? And guess what? That didn't matter, because he respected me, actually cared about what I thought about things, was incredibly intelligent, and randomly did the nicest things imaginable (like putting flowers on my windshield after work one night).
I completely fell for him, even though he wasn't what I'd call a "nice guy". Guess what else? He's barely taller than I am, is on the heavier side, and balding. No six-pack, no tattoos, no motorcycle--my god! How could I have EVER fallen for him?
The problem with nice guys is that most of them are TOO nice, and they never actually have an opinion of your own (Whatever you'd like, honeybunches). They give in during every fight, they let women walk all over them, and they aren't in any way, shape or form a challenge.
EVERYONE likes a challenge. Everyone likes a little mystery. Everyone likes dating another person, not an extension of themselves.
So--please knock it off with the generic comments about how women like bad boys. The only reason women like bad boys is because it takes the good ones time to grow up enough to grow a set of balls and stand up for themselves. THAT is why it looks like women start dating nice guys when they get older--it's not that the WOMEN are grown up (well, not completely, anyway). It's that the MEN have finally matured enough to keep up with them.
So--please knock it off with the generic comments about how women like bad boys. The only reason women like bad boys is because it takes the good ones time to grow up enough to grow a set of balls and stand up for themselves. THAT is why it looks like women start dating nice guys when they get older--it's not that the WOMEN are grown up (well, not completely, anyway). It's that the MEN have finally matured enough to keep up with them.
It's not generic, it's true. Women love bad boys.
Yeah, its real mature to get with a tattooed cheater drug addict alcoholic with a six pack who doesn't love or respect you. Now I'm not saying that you personally do these things. I am actually very glad you've met someone you love who respects you. You're very lucky to have found someone and stick with them.
But saying the reason women wait until they are older (late 20s - early 30s) to meet a nice guy only because it takes that long for a man to mature is pure garbage. By that statement, you are implying that any young man (Let's just say under 25) is not mature enough to meet a woman he has an emotional, physical, and mental bond with. Which is total BS. When the truth is that women are always looking for a 'nice guy' but whenever they meet one, he just doesn't do it for her so she goes back to the alcoholic who could give a about her until she realizes that her life is going nowhere with that loser.
And when I say 'nice guy' I don't mean the guy who agrees with everything you say and doesn't think or stand up for himself. I mean a guy who loves and respects you.
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