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    Sad_and_Broken8 Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 5, 2008, 01:57 PM
    I don't want to give my boyfriend an std but he wants me to give him oral
    I think I might have caught something from another guy that I had sex with even though we used protection and he said that he had been tested negative and my question is that is I do have something can I give it to my boyfriend from giving him head. I don't have soars in my mouth or anything but I do have a tongue ring and I don't know if that would be considered an open soar even thought its healed. Help:o :p
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    Sep 5, 2008, 03:58 PM
    Well unless you have had a break out you cannot give an std to your boyfriend but its always a good idea to get tested just to be safe, there are tons of free clinics where you do not have to tell them your name or any information about yourself.
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    Sep 5, 2008, 04:15 PM
    Yes lady is correct. I suggest you get yourself tested, that way your mind can be at rest and you will know the truth.
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    Sep 5, 2008, 08:28 PM
    I really hope I don't have anything. I hope it's just a yeast infection because I will so kill myself if I have anything
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    Sep 5, 2008, 08:48 PM
    Get a test, and use a condom till you know for sure,
    Those that told you that you can not spead it if there is no outbreak don't know what they are saying there are dozens of STD that has no signs at all
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    Sep 5, 2008, 10:51 PM
    I agree with Chuck... many stds do not have any physical symptoms. Get tested and go from there. Even if its just a yeast infection, if you were to have sex (actual sex not oral) there is a possibility that you would keep getting it after it cleared up. If it were another disease, one that does not have physical symptoms, then you need to get treatment for it. If you have any suspicions that you could have gotten something, the best thing to do is refrain from any sexual contact, including oral, until you have ruled everything out.
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    Sep 6, 2008, 10:17 AM
    How about both the original poster AND those responding use proper English?

    Any more posts with "u" instead of "you" and "ne" instead of "any" WILL be deleted.

    I do not have the patience with ADULTS typing like 12 year old kids---I will just assume that you are NOT an adult if you can't and will delete your posts.

    As far as STDs--you should get tested BEFORE you do anything sexual with your boyfriend. Period.
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    Sep 6, 2008, 04:18 PM
    You have to take responsibility for your actions and step up and do the right thing.

    Get tested so you can put your mind at ease. Think about what means most to you in this life, and work out a way to approach having a sex life that is reasonable for an adult.

    Best wishes,
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    Sep 6, 2008, 06:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sad_and_Broken8
    I think I might have caught someting from another guy that i had sex with even though we used protection and he said that he had been tested negative and my question is that is i do have someting can i give it to my boyfriend from giving him head. I don't have soars in my mouth or anything but i do have a tounge ring and i dont know if that would be considered an open soar even thought its healed. help:o :p
    You should go to the doctor and make sure your healthy a condom is never 100% you could still get std's, and you say the guy says he's negative don't believe that unless the doctor hands you the results just be safe:)

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