Ok If I Dont Use Correct Grammer Such As Full Stops Forgive Me Im Used To Doing It On Computer

Im An 18yr Old Virgin Going On 19 At First I Didn't Care About It But People I Knew Found Out An They Started Laughing Calling Me A Loser An Stuff It Got Worse From There When I Went To Work I Had People Coming Up To Me Saying Are You Still A Virgin I Said Yeah They Laughed An Said Oh My God You Need To Get A Life I Started Getting Stuff Thrown At Me Like Cans Of Coke etc I Never Told The Boss About It Incase He Laughed The Ones At Work Bought Me A Blow Up Doll An Said Have Fun

I Got Invited To A Party I Thought Maybe I'll Go Take Stress Off When I Got There I Was Forced Into A Room By A Group Of People My Age Who I Thought Were Friends I Was TIed To A Chair They Put Porn On Made Me Watch It An Said Were Not Untying You Until Its Over
Look What Your Missing Out On To Bad You Wont Get None

An I Havent Had Success With Any Girl No Matter How Nice Iam To Them I Just Fail All The Time An I Don't Wanna Pay For It Cause That Makes Me Feel Worse I Dont Know What To Do Ive Thought Of Sucide A Few Times Not Much Point In Living If I Cant Find Love

I Fear When My Parents Die Il Have No One Sitting By myself With No Girl In My Life Whatsoever an being a virgin the rest of my life Ive Tryed Numerous Times An Ive Failed With Girls An The Thoughts Of That Scares Me

Now Ive Turned To Drugs Such As Speed Acid E's Smoke 8 Grams Of Weed everyday sometimes mix the weed with speed

The Drugs Dont Make Me Feel Like A Loser But If I Give Them Up Il Feel Im Stuck Dont Know What To Do

simoneaugie

Somehow we learn that drugs and sex make us cool. Not so. Find a new place to work because the way you're being treated for being honest is just wrong! Putting others down to make ourselves feel better is supposed to be human nature. Not so.

Ask yourself who you really want to be. Then be that to the best of your ability. Masking how you feel with chemicals is copping out. If you are afraid of ending up alone in your old age, visit, no, volunteer at a nursing home. That will give you perspective on how you are treated in life, in general.

asking

Dear Evanzie,
I read at a government web site that about one-third of all 19 year old men are virgins. That's hundreds of thousands of people just like you! It's perfectly normal for many young people to wait until they find the right partner. There's no rush. It is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. They are only teasing you because they see that you are embarrassed by it. You don't need to be.

Several people here have mentioned that you should get off the drugs and I agree. The people who have been tormenting you are evil and you need to get away from them, even if it means quitting your job and finding a new one. What you are experiencing IS sexual harassment, but whether you want to make an issue of it, or just leave that job is your decision. It sounds like you are too sad right now to talk to the boss about this. I don't blame you. I would be too!

But it also sounds to me as if you are having some serious problems with depression. You need to find someone you can talk to about this, and possibly try an antidepressant for a while. Suicidal thoughts are no joke. Please see a doctor soon. I guarantee your life WILL get better. When you get away from the bad people who are tormenting you and find your true self, you will also eventually find love. Have faith! Be patient. Reach out and find some real friends (who aren't cruel). And please go see a doctor and tell the doctor that you are depressed. Do that soon.

Keep telling us how you are doing.
Take care!

Xrayman

Okay here's the deal-I DONT GIVE A FLYING CRAP ABOUT WHAT YOUR BOSS THINKS_IF HE OR SHE ALLOWS ABUSE__THEY CAN BE SUED!

You don't talk about these things-YOU SUE THE PANTS OFF THEM!!!!

If you wanted to, you could make use of the money by finding a better place to live/work/enjoy leisure time, whatever.

AND this is the key to all your problems, get off the drugs-this (even if you were not before, makes you a loser, and an addict and helps you to stick around with the rubbish people, and girls who you would not want to have sex with anyway).

Some one (O_Troubles) wrote that she "would not date a drug user" HOORAY! someone who is a girl is telling you (consider it a free lesson).....drugs=no chicks.

Thanks simoneaugie for the kudos before-kind regards to you.

O_Troubles

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/lounge/...-43867-90.html
im not the prettyest or uglyest gurl out there but i assure you i wouldnt date you if you were prince william because you do drugs, heck not even if you were orlando bloom and he's a hottie. honetly tell ur boss A. if he deals with it you feel better at work work more get money get a theropist deal with your sadness and virgin/lonley issues AND GET CLEAN. or B. he laughs sue him use the money to go into rehab and get theropy and clean yourself up mabie your a scruffy guy we cant tell you online if you have bad style. did i mention GET CLEAN? let us know how it goes ok.

IneedHelp222

if i was you id beat the crap out of your so called friends and your Douche co-workers

Altenweg

That is neither helpful or appropriate. Telling someone to beat someone up is not good advice. There are better ways of handling things than getting physical. Please think before you respond. Thank you.

Synnen

I'll tell you to think before you speak.

I *almost* deleted your first post, but Altenweg called you on it, so I figured you might actually learn something about helpful answers that are actually LEGAL recourses.

And I *almost* deleted your extremely rude second post (see above), but I decided to publicly make a point with it.

Rude and/or illegal solutions WILL be deleted. Consider this your fair warning that future attitude will get you nowhere, as I will just delete the post.

Now--let's please stay on topic. If you feel the need to respond to my post (and by "you", I mean "anyone") then please PM me.

boredINmind

I don't know why these kinds of things are such a big deal because when you're young sex isn't that pleasurable or memorable. It is something that is mature and meaningful and should only be committed by people that are old and mature enough to except the consequences: BABIES, STDs.

I understand what you are going through, girls at my high school were getting pregnant at young ages (around 13 and 14) and no one thought that was odd. So I commend you on not being young and "over-active."

As for trying to get a gf, you not only have to be nice, but also confident. Girls want a guy that they can depend on to be there if they need someone to cry with, joke around, or kick some butt Being a nice guy is great, but don't let anyone walk over you.

Also get away, FAR AWAY, from the jerks that you call friends. Get out sometimes and go to nearby cities to club or join hobby groups. The goal is to get out there and find new, interesting people.

ANOTHER THING TO MENTION IS: LOOK FOR PEOPLE THAT YOU HAVE COMMON INTERESTS WITH! If the snotty hot girl doesn't like you, then go talk to the regular girl sitting in the corner. You will eventually find someone that feels the same as you, you just have to give people a chance.

IneedHelp222

i was kidding around, no need to get all crazy about it. Sorry

smoothy

Losers use drugs as a crutch....illicit drugs (or alcohol) don't cure anything, they only create more problems.

Best way to deal with life is not through a drug induced haze. But with a clear head so you have the capacity to recognise what the problem is and deal with it. You can't do that when you are drunk or stoned.

As far as finding a girl...give it time. stop obsessing over it. You have to be yourself and you will find the rigth woman for you. You can't MAKE anyone like you and not every woman is going to like you or even want you. Thats how it is. Its what everyone deals with. Except for certain cultures that treat people like cattle and have arrainged marriages. ANd no you don't have a say its the parents that decide.


Just avoid the losers that are into drugs....they aren't going far in life. When you are sober and straight then you can start on the rest.